few are "ok" but too cocky and in rare
occasions you will find your ideal shoes . . .
Those are okay (but not enough for me):

Pua hater & Slut hater Tyger told that best stuff can be found here: https://www.farfetch.com/shopping/men/oxfords-2/items.aspx?ffref=hd_snav
(of course it isn't true . . . )
Btw I love girls with wedges. Ona do you have wedges?