How many "dudes/bro's" is the AVERAGE ho texting/chatting w/

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...okay, so take your "average" (say 5-6.5 range) ho in her 20's or 30's in America in the year 2015....how many "dudes" do you think she is "in contact with" /"talking to" at any one time.....by this I mean, how many dudes is she either: texting Or receiving texts from, OR facebook messaging or receiving facebook messages from, or actually talking to on the phone (I know old-school) or in the process of messaging on "dating sites" like Tinder, POF, etc.

...my best guess...is that during any one 24-hour period, your average 20-30 something female is in communication with AT LEAST 15-20 horny bro's who are all basically waiting in line, competing with each other to fuck her by bombarding her with lame horny bro texts like : "yo, when we hanging out again? you doing anything to night? hit me up girl" blah blah blah.



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Lots of different questions there. Some years ago when I actually spent time with fucking females, they were in contact with around 20-30 guys daily, meaning speaking with them, texting, getting invited to bullshit.

With that said, the amount of guys hitting them up, but whom they had to ignore, is easily over 100, more like 2-300, if they are on social media.

New friend requests basicly every day, watcing their friend request shit on facebook is like 150+ people waiting your friend acceptance.


They live in complete and utter 100% sexual and validation abundance, they have suitors everywhere, they have large ass social circles, EVERY GUY wants to be their friend (bang them), and they have female friends everywhere, however also lots of competition with other pretty girls.

Cats/samsung, so you don't think I am being overly pessimistic/misogynistic in my estimate?!!
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PostThis post by iftsj was deleted by iftsj on Fri Jun 19, 2015 5:57 pm.

yeah..
no...
if youre serious just take a week off this site
its like subscribing to every shitty thing online, being overloaded with spam, and saying the average man received 100 mails a day



With that said, the key to getting with girls - given u are somewhat within their looks range and average/above average, is not "attraction" per se, but getting her emotionally invested in you, dependant of you. Focusing on trying to "attract" her is useless, she already has 500000 super hot guys blowing up her phone, no, you want to make her emotionally dependant on you. You do that by manipulating her, basicly. Simple human psychology, mixing hot/cold signals, getting her to do shit for you, making her unsure about what u think of her etc. Say what you will about PUA but that shit about getting her invested in you is super solid.

Samsung wrote:With that said, the key to getting with girls - given u are somewhat within their looks range and average/above average, is not "attraction" per se, but getting her emotionally invested in you, dependant of you. Focusing on trying to "attract" her is useless, she already has 500000 super hot guys blowing up her phone, no, you want to make her emotionally dependant on you. You do that by manipulating her, basicly. Simple human psychology, mixing hot/cold signals, getting her to do shit for you, making her unsure about what u think of her etc. Say what you will about PUA but that shit about getting her invested in you is super solid.

if this is true why do women approach ?
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iftsj wrote:
Samsung wrote:With that said, the key to getting with girls - given u are somewhat within their looks range and average/above average, is not "attraction" per se, but getting her emotionally invested in you, dependant of you. Focusing on trying to "attract" her is useless, she already has 500000 super hot guys blowing up her phone, no, you want to make her emotionally dependant on you. You do that by manipulating her, basicly. Simple human psychology, mixing hot/cold signals, getting her to do shit for you, making her unsure about what u think of her etc. Say what you will about PUA but that shit about getting her invested in you is super solid.

if this is true why do women approach ?


They seldom do, and when they do its with guys who look very good and in party-enviroments, OR guys who are very popular.

If you want pussy, you cannot sit around wait for it. If you are good looking, you will have it pretty easy online, even IRL you will get your fair share if you are out alot. However, if you want ALOT of girls, you better damn start approaching them and escalating on their ass.

And if ure just barely average looking, well then sit around waiting will bring you basicly 0 pussy.

cats wrote:
BigSteveWood wrote:Cats/samsung, so you don't think I am being overly pessimistic/misogynistic in my estimate?!!

You're just being accurate. Maybe even underestimating depending on how active a girl is on social media. I know a solid 4 who is on social media all the time and probably has like 100 guys hit her up every day.


Yes, also, social media brings a new phenomena. Now fat ugly girls can make themselves look hot shit on the internet, giving them a fucking huge ego boost, so now uve got fat average girls walking around thinking they are super hot.

And if ure just barely average looking, well then sit around waiting will bring you basicly 0 pussy.


^^^true dat. That was ER's strategy..sit around like a socially-awkward loner, and "wait" for a hot young university blonde to walk up and flirt with him out of the blue. lol...we all know how that story ended, and HE was a kid who had cash to flash and who wasn't really ugly or fat.

BigSteveWood wrote:And if ure just barely average looking, well then sit around waiting will bring you basicly 0 pussy.


^^^true dat. That was ER's strategy..sit around like a socially-awkward loner, and "wait" for a hot young university blonde to walk up and flirt with him out of the blue. lol...we all know how that story ended, and HE was a kid who had cash to flash and who wasn't really ugly or fat.


He should have looks maxed with steroids, tan, making him buff cause his frame and neck was total shit. Great physique + cash + cars + a cool bad ass domineering attitude coupled with approaching and escalating on girls would have completely handled his girl problems.

Instead he was passive and whined like a bitch, ending up killing people and himself :lol: Probably low T as fuck.

Samsung wrote:
iftsj wrote:if this is true why do women approach ?


They seldom do, and when they do its with guys who look very good and in party-enviroments, OR guys who are very popular.

If you want pussy, you cannot sit around wait for it. If you are good looking, you will have it pretty easy online, even IRL you will get your fair share if you are out alot. However, if you want ALOT of girls, you better damn start approaching them and escalating on their ass.

And if ure just barely average looking, well then sit around waiting will bring you basicly 0 pussy.


seems legit
i just got unfat and i m pretty sure im now decently good looking (like 7 with good height frame and masc but still a little fat and aspie)
i m stuck for the summer with normalfags friends and no women i know near me
when i go out i catch women eyes but dont know what to do anymore since ive heard pua is shit
whats the easiest way to fuck a looksmatch or a little under bitch?
just go and say hi once your goodlooking? but then ?

i would certainly do good online but i m broke and cannot pay for this shit and no free site here (i even asked in an earlier topic along with where to go for the lookmaxed and nobody fucking respond)

maskedmagician, you REALLY think it is that low??! why only 5?!

Think of the dating market as kind of like the pre-late 2008 market crash job market. When one employer puts out an ad, they have a ton of applicants right? But in normal employment conditions (ie. before the stock market crash in late 2008) the number of jobs was almost as plentiful as the number of available workers. So even though you had plenty of applicants per job, the vast majority of people end up finding a job anyway because the worker:job ratio is almost an equal 1:1

Yeah sure each girl has plenty of "applicants" (guys talking to her). But the vast majority of guys end up getting a girl.

When you are an applicant with little work experience and not much in the way of marketable skills, you are in no position to be picky about what jobs you apply for. You take what you can get. Use the minimum wage jobs to build your resume, build your contacts. Use it as a stepping stone for greater things.

The problem with incels is that they are at the bottom of the dating totem pole. Little to no sexual and romantic experience. Non-existent social skills. Not much to offer to a woman. And yet they expect to get hotties. The SMV equivalent of a 6-figure job. Are you fucking kidding me? If you have low-value, you have to start out having sex and developing relationships with low-value women. And build up your resume (sexual and romantic experience).

Do you see people straight out of college bitching about the fact that they don't have a six-figure income? No. So why the fuck do you expect a 8/10 when you have no sexual experience, no romantic experience, no LIFE experience? Dumb fuck.

A lot of women these days punch above their weight and over-rate their own dating market value. But only an estimated 25% of millennials are expected to be single, never-married. And that figure includes single, never-married who have had LTRs. So the number of women who are too picky is not that fucking high. A lot of women smarten the fuck up and lower their standards with time.
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cats wrote:Nobody here expects to get an 8.

We just want a looks matched gf who is loyal. Problem is that is completely impossible in today's feminist society.
You're not going to get a loyal looks matched gf. Women don't operate on the same wavelength as men. When men select for women, they mostly look at looks. When women select for men, they look at many things in addition to looks. Status and Money are important to women. I'm not saying you need to be a celebrity or anything. But you need to be a cool, interesting, fun guy who has things going for him. You need to be a good conversationalist. If you don't have the status or (if money is important to her) the status and/or money, you're not going to attract your looks-match. You are going to have to date girls who are less attractive than you.

If you're not able to attract a looks-matched gf. If you only attract women low on the totem pole when your looks are really not that bad, that means your status and/or money is low on the totem pole.

If you have a problem with this, take it up with men for not holding women to a higher standard. For not putting weight on things like a woman's virtue and whether she is a nice person or not. If you're a low-status male, look for girls who are wholesome and virtuous. Don't place too much value on looks. Because there's no fucking way a sluthater with 8600+ posts has the market value to get a looks-matched gf who is loyal, wholesome and virtuous.
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It's not rigged against men. It's just that women are looking for something different than what men are looking for.

There are employers out there who are looking for specialists. But also employers who are looking for generalists.

Women mostly want generalists. Well-rounded guys who offer a good balance between looks and social skills/personality (cool, interesting, fun, good conversationalist. Being well-traveled matters more to women as they age). And as women age, they also care more about money generally.

If you're a looks specialist like Bri0 who has nothing to offer aside from his looks and physique, then well you are shit out of luck. Because there isn't much of a market for looks specialists. You must become well-rounded. That is what the female market wants. If you don't want to become more well-rounded, tough.
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I talked about what men want. Men mostly just care about looks (to their detriment). But if you don't have what attractive women want, good luck attracting an attractive woman. Relationships and sex are a 2-way street.

The vast majority of guys have no problem getting a girlfriend. You just can't compete. Tough. You do know that single girls are pressured by their social circle and also their family to get a serious boyfriend no?

If a woman makes it to 40 single, never-married, no long-term partner, their social circle will criticize them or even laugh at them behind their back. There is a real stigma attached to it. Even women in their late 20s/early 30s are pressured by their social circle to find a nice guy to settle down with. And women in a girl's social circle will show concern for a girl friend in her teens/twenties who hasn't had a boyfriend for awhile. And will actively try to set her up with a single guy.
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cats wrote:The vast majority of guys with girlfriends are living in sexless relationships, living like slaves to their girlfriends and getting cheated on. I'd much rather be single.

Relationships are not a 2-way street. It's a 1-way street with women holding all the power.
I don't deny that cheating goes on. But you make it seem like Chad has endless free time and energy to fuck all your girlfriends and wives. Women have sexual needs too. Cheating women don't want one-night stands. They want an on-going affair. And there's only so many on-going affairs Chad can juggle at the same time.
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