Running out of things to say

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Pretty much every loser I talk to about girls mentions that they "don't know what to say" around girls. They tend to run out of topics quickly, and think they must have some social deficit. It's hilarious because they don't realize what's actually happening: girls are sabotaging their conversations. They don't want the interaction to go where the sub-5 wants it to go, so they give him nothing to work with. Here's a great example from master PUA and world's leading cringe coach Jonny Berba:



The PUA has to ask question after question -- introduce topic after topic -- while the girl gives short, monotone responses that add nothing to the conversation. He literally hits everything from work to dating to where she grew up, and she offers absolutely nothing in return. This is what girls do when they want you to go away. They don't actually reject you -- they just passively kill the conversation. (Particular lols at the "close" in this video where Berba asks for a date and she sidesteps by saying she's going to be out of town for two weeks.)

This is why there's no such thing as good social skills. If the girl doesn't want the interaction to continue, she will give you nothing to work with and leave you "running out of things to say." If she thinks you're hot, she will actually contribute to the conversation, and suddenly everything you say seems to work. And when you "run out of things to say" she'll pick up the slack.

tldr: Just lol at social skills boyos
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Your post/video within are just symptomatic of Dem Shitcont monosyllabic responses. How many times within these hallowed walls have we read the tales of woe from some exasperated Tindercel, who due to a combination of crippling autism and zero social savvy, is unable to grasp why all his opening online chat convos are met with uniform 'lol' or 'ok'.

It is one of the most infuriating traits of any shitcunt. But it is their wont. Imagine that you were some self-entitled, pedestal-sitting shitcunt possessing a stinking and dripping axe-wound between your legs. You spend your afternoon on various social/dating sites fielding approximately 2,798 incoming messages per minute from men across the globe. You can only manage the 'lol' or 'ok' response due to the sheer volume. But when Josh, Chad or Big Chris appear on your radar, then the conversation is free and flowing.

Dem dere no-talking shitconts only speak when they have to.

Extremely, extremely legit. This is why I laugh out loud when I read all the semi pua's on this site and elsewhere deeply analyze everything about a night down to the last minute detail and bend their brains trying to determine what they must have done differently, when in reality it's just that the chick was receptive to their looks. That's why becoming an autistic PUA who is obsessed with analyzing and identifying patterns really fucks your brain up, and more men should be warned.
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80% legit, I'd say.

Though once you've got a girl out on a date you at least need to know how to lead a conversation. You need that basic skill. You can't just show up and take a dump on the table.



Norwood Cemetery wrote: How many times within these hallowed walls have we read the tales of woe from some exasperated Tindercel, who due to a combination of crippling autism and zero social savvy, is unable to grasp why all his opening online chat convos are met with uniform 'lol' or 'ok'.


Online this has to be even worse. But people need to understand that there's no skill in any of this. Your personality and social skills do nothing, absolutely nothing for you. Girls will suck the energy out of the conversation and leave you with nothing to talk about if they don't want to deal with you. Rarely do they ever reject you outright -- that would mean you were actually trying to flirt with them (which is insulting). Instead, they try to shed you before you can even start flirting.

Norwood Cemetery wrote: Dem dere no-talking shitconts only speak when they have to.


They took our jobs?

You can run out of things to say and still hookup with the girl if she's interested,lol.
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True Romance wrote:You can't just show up and take a dump on the table.


I suppose you got me there. But guys -- particularly sub-5's -- don't know what it looks like when a girl is actually interested. So they go after these women who are clearly trying to get rid of them, and then they come back to me and say they don't have good enough conversation skills. They even say I'm outgoing and social -- fucking lol! Here's what I say to girls to "open": "Hey, how's it going?" That's it. Then if I get enthusiasm, we small-talk until I move things to my place or ask her out later. I don't say anything particularly interesting or funny -- just boring small-talk. The girl usually is funnier than me. (Notice in the video above: Berba does all the joking and teasing, while girl does none). Just lol at a "sense of humor."



Honest Abe wrote:I have nothing to say to them but suck my dick now


Gotta make sure I don't cut myself on all your edginess.

Are you guys watching Berba's breakdown at the end? I'm actually in tears right now. This is amazing. He calls it a "close to perfect" pickup! The girl completely blows him off, and this is what he's calling his best video!!! Hahahahahha. It's a "blueprint for getting a girlfriend from the street"! LOLOLOLOL. He's "non-needy" and "not a beggar" while he pretty much desperately begs for sex from this girl while she gives him the cold shoulder.

Berba always delivers priceless content.

New Poster wrote:
True Romance wrote:You can't just show up and take a dump on the table.


I suppose you got me there. But guys -- particularly sub-5's -- don't know what it looks like when a girl is actually interested. So they go after these women who are clearly trying to get rid of them, and then they come back to me and say they don't have good enough conversation skills. They even say I'm outgoing and social -- fucking lol! Here's what I say to girls to "open": "Hey, how's it going?" That's it. Then if I get enthusiasm, we small-talk until I move things to my place or ask her out later. I don't say anything particularly interesting or funny -- just boring small-talk. The girl usually is funnier than me. (Notice in the video above: Berba does all the joking and teasing, while girl does none). Just lol at a "sense of humor."


The real social skills that matter are how you relate to the same sex. Having lots of people that consider you a good friend (because of your ability to relate to them) and respect you gets you Dat status and chicks are into that.

Dudes really shouldn't focus so much on trying to game women. That's not how things work. All you can do is say hi and have short conversations to see if the interest is there.

Sometimes you actually just don't have anything to say. The girl can be interested

It comes from not having a life imo

i don't talk to girls, they talk to me, and i sabotage myself by responding with one word answers and other autistic shit. am i slayer yet?

Dallasjameswilliams wrote:you need to be prepared to think on the spot. nervousness is the worst.


i would say it has nothing to do with preparedness, sometimes i'm prepared, but blank out. it's more about being relaxed and mentally lucid and fluid. that comes, from my experience, when you are in a good mood, and don't care about what the other person thinks of you. very hard to do with a girl you like of course.

Try spending a week hanging out with friends and acquaintances non stop. You'd have a lot more to say to strangers

I noticed I was more talkative with coworkers when I got laid the night before. If I had spent the week in, I generally wouldn't even talk

The next time I like a girl I'm going to try fucking a 6/my ex before hanging out with them

Stupid. Just speak about what's on your mind or get the girl to talk about herself. Simple.
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PuaKiller wrote:Stupid. Just speak about what's on your mind or get the girl to talk about herself. Simple.

+1
Good point, but the woman has to be physically attracted to you, and wanting to engage with you. You can have the best conversational/social skills in the world, but if she refuses to engage with you, it all counts for shit.

Whenever I have observed the interaction between my good looking slayer friend and the women he ended up fucking, you could clearly see the said woman was actively participating in the conversation.
This is what happens whenever I approach women.
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Slut's Shame wrote:Try spending a week hanging out with friends and acquaintances non stop. You'd have a lot more to say to strangers

I noticed I was more talkative with coworkers when I got laid the night before. If I had spent the week in, I generally wouldn't even talk

The next time I like a girl I'm going to try fucking a 6/my ex before hanging out with them

lmfao at boring ass normie life giving u something to talk about

muh squad and i turnt up bruh at *insert location* YAWWWWNNNN lmao

sitting inside being a basement dweller gives me time to consume countless pieces of media, all far superior starting points for REAL conversation instead of reporting on your social status
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I never understood the whole idea of "running out of things to say" how about just say hello like any other normal person would? Lol, all You have to do as a guy is initiate the conversation and the woman will take it from there.

PuaKiller wrote:Stupid. Just speak about what's on your mind or get the girl to talk about herself. Simple.


So true if a girl is into you its easy she opens up to you, so in turn you feel relaxed and open yourself everything will come naturally. 95 percent of people can carry a conversation for at least a hour if they are relaxed and a person is interested in what they have to say and is giving positive attention.

Master Yoda wrote:
PuaKiller wrote:Stupid. Just speak about what's on your mind or get the girl to talk about herself. Simple.

+1
Good point, but the woman has to be physically attracted to you, and wanting to engage with you. You can have the best conversational/social skills in the world, but if she refuses to engage with you, it all counts for shit.

Whenever I have observed the interaction between my good looking slayer friend and the women he ended up fucking, you could clearly see the said woman was actively participating in the conversation.


In general its true but there are a few women that actually just want to talk....but when a conversation is like pulling teeth its best to just abandon it - the only exception I think is when the bitch can hardly speak your language...

New Poster wrote:Pretty much every loser I talk to about girls mentions that they "don't know what to say" around girls. They tend to run out of topics quickly, and think they must have some social deficit. It's hilarious because they don't realize what's actually happening: girls are sabotaging their conversations. They don't want the interaction to go where the sub-5 wants it to go, so they give him nothing to work with. Here's a great example from master PUA and world's leading cringe coach Jonny Berba:



The PUA has to ask question after question -- introduce topic after topic -- while the girl gives short, monotone responses that add nothing to the conversation. He literally hits everything from work to dating to where she grew up, and she offers absolutely nothing in return. This is what girls do when they want you to go away. They don't actually reject you -- they just passively kill the conversation. (Particular lols at the "close" in this video where Berba asks for a date and she sidesteps by saying she's going to be out of town for two weeks.)

This is why there's no such thing as good social skills. If the girl doesn't want the interaction to continue, she will give you nothing to work with and leave you "running out of things to say." If she thinks you're hot, she will actually contribute to the conversation, and suddenly everything you say seems to work. And when you "run out of things to say" she'll pick up the slack.

tldr: Just lol at social skills boyos


sexually interested girls/women will help you IF there is a problem - uninterested girls will create the problem

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