ginasapio wrote:I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I love him to death. We've always talked about a future together. Marriage,kids,a house,etc. I've always been so excited. But the last month or 2..I've been realizing I'm not sexually attracted to him anymore. It started slowly,so I didn't really notice at first. Then it hit me all at once. We used to have sex like 2-4 times a day. I loved it. now it feels like a chore having sex with him once a day. I kind of dread it. and it hurts to feel that way. I do love him. Part of me feels like the problem is that over the last few months I've realized I'm really super attracted to my best friend. Like really attracted. I've stayed away from him more..to see if us hanging out a lot was the problem. It doesn't help. Where do I go from here? What do I do? I feel terrible. Please help..
wow what a coincidence .. she just realized
adventurer wrote:Sounds like you have a serious crush on your best friend.. Think about what it would be like if you and your current boy friend took a break.You would be able to explore your feelings with your best friend, but keep in mind that your current boyfriend could be off with another girl.
Until the desire to be with your best friend outweighs the possibility of your current boyfriend with another girl, you should stay in your relatonship. But as soon as exploring is more important, I'd call it quits.
lol everything is like "explore the possibility". its like being a kid in a candy store, so much temptation.. that her best friend obviously wants her too and wont turn her down is taken for granted and they're probably right. Even though he probably knows the boyfriend well enough if he's in her close social circle, he will be in that pussy before the other guy's cum has even been washed out the moment the gets a green light..
also because girls can get a new guy as easy as ordering a pizza, they project this on the boyfriend, like he's suddenly gonna get a new girl despite likely being well entrenched in beta cuck love mode (likes her a lot more tha she likes him). likely he's going to be suicidal .. and he was gonna marry her too lol
and the best friend would have to be retarded actually getting into an LTR with her, what do you think is gonna happen to him? or maybe im overestimating guys
this thread is another mindfuck where i cant even understand what the fuck she wants and i can und:
holy fuck the more i read the more i do this..
we spend all this time talking about how to get girls but then you realize they're on a completely different fucking wavelength. i cant believe i actually got laid a few times in my life, i should feel lucky cause there must have been some major alignment of the celestial bodies
half the threads are something like "Help, confused" where some she's wondering why the guy she's stringing along or manipulating is getting frustrated
the other half are girls asking advice on how to manage some complicated web of relationships involving her current boyfriend, her ex boyfriend, her best male friend, and that new guy she met last weekend. And they just feel terrible about it!
oh yeah and spoiler alert: not one girl complaining she's incel