Swedish beta boyfrie: "My wife dont BJ me, but former lover?

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I have a small problem that I do not really know how I'll manage.

Since a few months back so met a new girl and we click very well and feel comfortable with each other. She is a little what you might call a "prude and innocent" girl outwards and the only thing that is not hundred of our relationship is sex.

Early on, she made clear to me that oral sex is not something you have if you had not been together for a while - but preferably no she does at all. In addition, she would like it to be extinguished in the room during the act. I personally think this is pretty boring compared to previous conditions and have told her that I would like more. This resulted in principle that she gave me oral few times quickly before the file, and then argue that it is not something she likes and would rather not do. I got to take the rough with the smooth and accept it and has therefore not been nagging at her after this.

Now for the big problem.

I stayed with her for the weekend and Friday night when she showered, I saw that her Facebook chat was open on the computer. Stupid as I was, I read a bit and saw that she chatted a lot with a guy last fall. Really regret that I did this ...

What I could read during the short time that the two had some type of relationship in the autumn but which is now completed. I buy without saying that my girl is not a virgin, but the way they wrote about sex really gets it hurt the heart, given how our sex life looks now.

She writes quite figuratively about their previous sex meeting in chat with him and that includes details about how she wants him to "take her in every hole." If I talk dirty with her, she becomes touchy and wonder if I only want her for sex. When he simultaneously writes that he does not jerk off before the next meeting so that he "can fill her mouth properly" so she giggles only. I know quite clear that they have made the whole hog a lot more than she wants to do with me.

So Flashback, how do I handle this situation?

Both me the girl and the other guy is between 25-30. The guy and I'm probably even looking objectively, however, he is very muscular and tatooed (typical gym goer). I am a young careerist with high ambitions, which he probably is not.

I am after reading the conversation afraid my girlfriend wants me for the safe and sustainable boyfriend while she may seek excitement elsewhere.

PS. Of course it was wrong to snoop in her FB, need not be discussed. In a way, I have myself to blame, but the difference in her behavior is a fact.



One answer from some female:

I'm just like your girl ...

With my ex so I had no problem being filthy.
But with my husband so I'm really really neat. would
never even think of giving him oral sex or
go the whole hog.

BUT ...

I have been faithful to all our years, not even given a different
man a hug. Would never think of a man other than
my current either. However, does not mean that your
girl will be faithful to you forever.

But it can be like you said. She sees you as a stable
guy she can spend her life with. You are a different sort
boyfriend material. Just like how I see my husband.


my husband was the first one I really felt that
Him, I can spend the rest of my life with.

He is not the man I loved most, but he's the kindest, funniest
and most stable of all the men I have met. Even the safest.

(no, not financially. My husband is correct poor compared to others I met).

I loved my ex more, but the guy was so damn unpredictable. love
my husband is in a completely different way and I would never take back my ex boyfriend
as though he proved to be a god.



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every man should cheat on his gf immedietly on principle.
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-Chronic reborn

fuck

cant really get much more clear than that
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This one is really the key in this:

however, he is very muscular and tatooed (typical gym goer). I am a young careerist with high ambitions, which he probably is not.



Just as science tells us: Women are programmed to want:

1. Great genes
2. A provider beta male

Often they get these from 2 different males, and she will let the "lover" do whatever he wants to her, while she on the other hand pretends to be the "innocent girl" to the provider beta, so he trust her 100% which in turn makes it easier for her to fuck "chad" behinds his back and getting Chads genes, while the beta provider has no idea.

Fuck, the female nature is really pure evilness :lol:

willymonfret wrote:every man should cheat on his gf immedietly on principle.


Lmao! You make some legit posts from time to time Willy.
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ive never met a girl they didnt happily suck my cock, and im not an alpha.
My cock is above average though so maybe thats it.

hood rych wrote:
willymonfret wrote:every man should cheat on his gf immedietly on principle.


Lmao! You make some legit posts from time to time Willy.


just looking at womens nature ,their racism,their double standards,their low self worth,their shallowness...its better to default cheat..so when she hurts you atleast you DID never get played.




also never get emotionally involved with a girl unless shes a nice girl for sure you can trust(and you gotta test that shit with hiring male models to hit her up,or dubai sheikhs offering her money for sex).

Samsung wrote:This one is really the key in this:

however, he is very muscular and tatooed (typical gym goer). I am a young careerist with high ambitions, which he probably is not.



Just as science tells us: Women are programmed to want:

1. Great genes
2. A provider beta male

Often they get these from 2 different males, and she will let the "lover" do whatever he wants to her, while she on the other hand pretends to be the "innocent girl" to the provider beta, so he trust her 100% which in turn makes it easier for her to fuck "chad" behinds his back and getting Chads genes, while the beta provider has no idea.

Fuck, the female nature is really pure evilness :lol:



Did you just learn about this or are you just playing all sides to troll (sometimes RP, sometimes BP)

Anyway yeah, it leaves a bad taste in your mouth as a guy. It's hard not to take a personally. But in the end it's just evolution. The male Black widow spider can't take it personally when the female eats him after meeting, he doesn't have a consciousness. Although if he did, he might appreciate that these he passed on his genes. Similar stuff happens in bees, praying mantis, some variation of the male dying in order to reproduce

And of course male lions kill the babies of the old alpha when they take over a pack

But I can't think of a single example in the natural world where genetic males capable of reproduction are given the role of sexless drones who are denied passing on their genes or reduce their ability to do so because they're helping the female reproduce with a more genetically attractive mate .. except humans

Ceran wrote:
Samsung wrote:This one is really the key in this:




Just as science tells us: Women are programmed to want:

1. Great genes
2. A provider beta male

Often they get these from 2 different males, and she will let the "lover" do whatever he wants to her, while she on the other hand pretends to be the "innocent girl" to the provider beta, so he trust her 100% which in turn makes it easier for her to fuck "chad" behinds his back and getting Chads genes, while the beta provider has no idea.

Fuck, the female nature is really pure evilness :lol:



Did you just learn about this or are you just playing all sides to troll (sometimes RP, sometimes BP)

Anyway yeah, it leaves a bad taste in your mouth as a guy. It's hard not to take a personally. But in the end it's just evolution. The male Black widow spider can't take it personally when the female eats him after meeting, he doesn't have a consciousness. Although if he did, he might appreciate that these he passed on his genes. Similar stuff happens in bees, praying mantis, some variation of the male dying in order to reproduce

And of course male lions kill the babies of the old alpha when they take over a pack

But I can't think of a single example in the natural world where genetic males capable of reproduction are given the role of sexless drones who are denied passing on their genes or reduce their ability to do so because they're helping the female reproduce with a more genetically attractive mate .. except humans


Lololol Ive known about this for the last 9 years, Ive probably read more books and scientific articles regarding this than all of you combined. Name one fucking evolutionary biology book, evolution of desire, the selfish gene, the red queen, the mating mind or whatever bullshit - Ive read it.

Im also a hardcore analyser of social situations, thats why Im 100% certain a mans behaviour is more important when it comes to sexual attraction - scientific knowledge combined with social experience. A good looking insecure man sitting in the corner not able to hold eye contact with a weak voice, will ahve a VERY difficult time getting laid.

An average dude who is the center of attention, loud and self assured, steady eye-contact, strong voice and powerful presence will SLAY like nothing you have ever seen.

Behaviour > looks, thats the REAL red pill.

Anyway back to topic: Females are evil.

No such thing as a "prude" woman, more n' loikely that bitch is just lying 'cause he's not hot enough. What a faggot he deserves this fer puttin' up with her and all her ilk, turn him into a hot guy and she'd be swallowin' her shit and his cum off his johnny. Bastard deserves it.

alienfranco wrote:This is my Punjabi ex's fiancee's future. She had all the nasty sex with white guys. Hubby wont get any of that. CUCKED. lol.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: right, poor Apu. Actually no, I hate Indians.

Samsung wrote:
Ceran wrote:

Did you just learn about this or are you just playing all sides to troll (sometimes RP, sometimes BP)

Anyway yeah, it leaves a bad taste in your mouth as a guy. It's hard not to take a personally. But in the end it's just evolution. The male Black widow spider can't take it personally when the female eats him after meeting, he doesn't have a consciousness. Although if he did, he might appreciate that these he passed on his genes. Similar stuff happens in bees, praying mantis, some variation of the male dying in order to reproduce

And of course male lions kill the babies of the old alpha when they take over a pack

But I can't think of a single example in the natural world where genetic males capable of reproduction are given the role of sexless drones who are denied passing on their genes or reduce their ability to do so because they're helping the female reproduce with a more genetically attractive mate .. except humans


Lololol Ive known about this for the last 9 years, Ive probably read more books and scientific articles regarding this than all of you combined. Name one fucking evolutionary biology book, evolution of desire, the selfish gene, the red queen, the mating mind or whatever bullshit - Ive read it.

Im also a hardcore analyser of social situations, thats why Im 100% certain a mans behaviour is more important when it comes to sexual attraction - scientific knowledge combined with social experience. A good looking insecure man sitting in the corner not able to hold eye contact with a weak voice, will ahve a VERY difficult time getting laid.

An average dude who is the center of attention, loud and self assured, steady eye-contact, strong voice and powerful presence will SLAY like nothing you have ever seen.

Behaviour > looks, thats the REAL red pill.

Anyway back to topic: Females are evil.


Okay so let me ask you this please:

I offer you a magic pill that will permanently turn your personality into whatever you want. Dominant, extroverted, loud, assertive, whatever. This personality will be natural for you and you won't have to think about it. You can be like this all the time if you wish, and you wont get depressed or anything ever.


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However, as a trade off you lose 2 points and become a regular 5/10 average joe shmoe

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take the deal?

of course you will be allowed to work out, work on your aesthetics, even get surgery whatever you want, no restrictions
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