Why would a woman wear sexy clothes to get attention from strangers when she's in a relationship?
Because there is literally no difference in a woman's mind between being in a relationship and being single. Whether she has a man waiting for her at home or not, she still wants all eyes on her when she's out and about doing her daily routine. They are narcissists and love the validation. A woman isn't going to let something like a "relationship" get in the way of her biological, primitive need to be on a sexual pedestal. Women get off on the fact that they are out of your league and don't consider you human. Although they'd prefer to be persued by a Chad Thundercock, a close second sadistic joy is her feeling oppressed by being desired by a sub8. They want to feel like distressed damsels. They love the victimhood of being desired by and getting attention from a sub8, yet despise the sub8 himself.
The greatest joy a woman can have -- besides barebacking a Chad -- is knowing that she is effectively castrating an incel by denying him sex. She hopes he can't find it elsewhere with another woman. That's why women are against prostitution. They don't want incels to have options: a woman wants her rejection to be significantly devastating to an incel.
white incel = aspie vocel