To all the "Good Guys" (the ones that girls don't go for because their too nice); Yes, girls don't tend to go out with the nice guys, the good guys, the guys in the friend zone.
-We don't date you because we don't think we are good enough to deserve a great guy like you. We are afraid of our faults being much worse than yours. We think we can take the jerks and mold them into someone we want because then, well, the credit is all ours. This never works. We date the other guys because we want crazy times and know the good guys are the type we shouldn't fuck around with their hearts. And we shouldn't mess with your heart. We date the other guys because we don't realize what we are missing out. Seriously.
But fear not, the nice guys are the ones we want. The jerks are not the marrying kind. We want the good guys to be our husbands, our children's fathers and our better half. We tend to have to find this out the hard way. We need to have our hearts broken by the other guys, we need to realize the good guys are the ones we can lean on, the ones that will always be there for us.
Please don't stop being the nice guy, the good guy, the best guy friend. You are what we want, and yes I get that its hard to wait but believe me your type is our type.
In other words: Take heart, wait until you're in your 30's, have forgotten about those women and developed careers and lives on your own, and when these women are finally done dating assholes and grow up, congrats! Now you can have them! ...Great..? I'll stick with the ones who weren't messed up to begin with, thanks. Seriously, this post is an unfortunate way to phrase it..
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