When girls like ur looks/are attracted to you, often times they wont be nice/open to you at all. I saw some thread on here where many of u crazy aspies argued girls will basicly jump on your cock if they like how you look.
Anyway, at my gym theres this chick whos like never make eye-contact with me, during all her time working out at that place, she has been very "cold" and off-putting, not directly any "IOIs" as pua-aspies would say.
This girl is pretty hot aswell, atleast a 7-7.5 (no not in pua terms where fucking 4s are 7s, but a real 7 - great femininee face, somewhat big tits, a hottie)
So today I tried to test this shit out. When I came in to the room she was working out in, I looked at her and as usual she basicly pretended I wasnt even there. I start doing my deadlifts and eventually I take my ear-phones off and ask her:
"Hey you, who are you anyway?"
"Im Emelie", nothing more, no smile - nothing.
So Im like
"Ok yea seen you alot here but never talked to ya"
Got like: "Hehe yea..." as response
So I continued trying making conversation between our sets, she continued being somewhat cold, not that interested and basicly having this "bitch look".
So I decided to ask for her number telling her we should hang out some time. Said and done, I ask her, instantly she shines up, then she tells me: "but you're like a player... right??" smiling, I tell her yea I used to play counter-strike, but that was a long time ago. She laughs at my lame joke, tells me sure she wanna hang out some day, gives me her number. Then we shit-chat some more for a couple of mins and now she is suddently very open and nice.
Well yea then we say goodbye.
Havent texted her yet but I got a feeling its pretty on.
Anyway, this again confirmed what Ive seen before many times: If girls find you attractive in some way, many of them will become cold/bitchy and not talk much at all. From my experience, actually the girls who are very open from the get go, very "nice" - usually have boyfriends.
Its like, when ure a threat or whatever, a sexual threat, they will get self consious and put on this bitch-persona.
And then again, ofcourse, especially when drunk, lots of girls will have the confidence to be nice and have sexual banter with you from the get go, but even then its not that uncommon they will be somewhat bitchy aswell.
If u constantly have girls being very nice and talkative with you, especially during day-time, its a big sign they dont see u as any sexual threat at all, more like a fucking friend, a "nice guy" whom they can be themselves with, without getting self consious (cause they dont see no sexual value at all in you).
So there you go. But then again, most of u wont believe shit like this happends in actual real life so whatever
I kill people.