Guy posted this:
I thought it was very useful, but that profile is overwhelming... At first, but I can picture myself in that photo. At that party, in that suit, with that same look on my face, text the same way he does, and get reviews.
I can picture a semi ugly fat guy in that same picture and still get positive results. It's in the congruence. There is so much value being given in that picture and that same confidence shown in text.
it's pretty good text game most of the time
I don't know man.
At first when I look at stuff like this it makes me feel like, shit, if only my face was that attractive to girls blabla what if it's all looks bla bla...
How boring would that fucking be? How boring would it be to be the guy who's just good looking and was born that way and that's his life, just everythign handed to him? Its the equivalent of a hot girl. And then what? What drive would I have?
What badass shit would I have to go through?
And when I get to that point I'm happy that I'm me. I think about it in terms of like a game, and its kind of exactly what I would pick. Make a character that has no limit on potential, but doesn't have it super easy at the beginning, and then you huste and concquer and be the fucking "one".
The other side of this is that the person in each convo has rock solid self amusement, congruence, unapologetic intent, unreactiveness. If you look closely it doesn't really matter what the girl says. The picture might give the guy permission to act that way, the behavior gets him to the finish line.
Looks dont mean shit bro. I'm a really good looking guy and I believe my looks hurt me more then they help. I get the validation from girls but never take action on it and im still a fucking chode. It feels nice having a girl stare at you and you dont want to lose that validation so you dont even go over and talk to her. I just chode out, and think to myself "oh if I go over and talk to her she'll find out what an actual loser I am" REAL TALK