Just the idea of sex is terrifying to me. I can't really explain why. It's a mental blockage. I feel awkward about it, like exposed, gross, vulnerable, inferior etc. I don't feel like a man but a boy. I feel like a weak pathetic beta faggot.
I mean, even Brio of all people had the balls to go out & fuck an escort. Now I have no interest in fucking escorts, but even if a regular girl was interested in me and I had the chance to fuck her... I really wouldn't be ready for it. I probably wouldn't even kiss her.
What's the verdict on this? I feel like this could be a pretty big issue (in theory, if I wasn't an ugly incel
Same here. Growing up, I always thought the biggest obstacle in regard to relationships would be intimacy. I worried about whether my breath would smell bad when I get my first kiss, or whether I would be a bad kisser, or whether the way I hold her would be awkward. My fear of intimacy was so strong that it might have prevented me from wanting to date a girl even if she was interested in me. These things are still things I worry about, but now at 22 they are overshadowed by my inceldom.
Another thing I worried about and still worry about is telling my parents I have a gf. Am I the only one? My parents never talk about girls or sex with me, so it would be really uncomfortable for me to bring up that I'm dating a girl or getting married, etc.
I guess that's the bright side of inceldom. It solves my fear of intimacy.
RodgerRabbit wrote:Trying to fix yourself is literally a race against the clock. It's a catch 22. By the time you've fixed all the flaws that prevented you from slaying, you will have lost the one thing most essential to slaying in the first place -- youth.
NewGenious119 wrote:This idea that nobody owes anyone anything completely goes against the entire point of even having a society in the first place. If society doesn't owe an individual person anything, then the individual owes society nothing either, so don't be surprised when they take their frustration out on the world.
There is absolutely NO GOOD reason why, in the 21st century, every person shouldn't have their basic needs met. That means food, shelter, clothing, and transportation for all and, yes, if you are a male, sexual access to attractive females as that is considered a basic need for men as well.
Leebyunghun wrote:The number one source of strife in human existence is the inequality of looks among the male species.
germanDream wrote:a woman would fuck a cute dog or horse over an average faced man ANY day of the week. its not even close. women are repulsed by non male model men
PuaKiller wrote:Most women couldn't last a month as an incel male. They'd suicide. Prostitution would be legal worldwide and virgin shaming would cease if women were put in the shoes of an incel male for even a month. They couldn't handle it.
firehaze wrote:If a girl has never made it obvious that she likes you then you're a lot more subhuman than you think.