I'm deadly afraid of physical intimacy tbh (serious)

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Im not afraid of the act, but rather of my body and me. That she will feel disgusted by me or wont feel turned on.
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After being on this forum I'm now more worried about my 6x5 dick size which is apparently to small than anything else.
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I am the same, I am not tactile at all and even holding hands is a barrier for me due to health problems.
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im also afraid of sex. i have typical social anxiety simptoms like cold sweat, sweaty palms, diarrhea etc. when some girl shows sexual interest in me which happened 2 times. first time i told her i cant come to her house for some reason and she stopped talking to me. 2nd time she was whale and i was at her house and i said i need to go to the store when she started touching my legs.

when i see girl wanting to have sex with me my fight or flight instinct turns on and i flee
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Gradual desensitisation is your friend.

Yes it is common. This is why alcohol is a 10 figure industry.
Tell me with whom you associate and I will tell you who you are. If I know with what you busy yourself, I know what you amount to

Elite Lookmaxer wrote:
RodgerRabbit wrote:I think the anxiety is more a result of inferiority complex.


...which is usually caused by low T/high E combo. Get tested

Yes ONLY low T can cause anxiety! :roll: :roll: :roll:

Common causes of anxiety include these mental conditions:
•Panic disorder: In addition to anxiety, common symptoms of panic disorders are palpitations (feeling your heart beat), dizziness, and shortness of breath. These same symptoms also can be caused by coffee (caffeine), amphetamines, an overactive thyroid, abnormal heart rhythms, and other heart abnormalities (such as mitral valve prolapse).
•Generalized anxiety disorder
•Phobic disorders
•Stress disorders

These common external factors can cause anxiety:
•Stress at work
•Stress from school
•Stress from having a non forward grown Maxilla
•Stress in a personal relationship such as marriage
•Financial stress
•Stress from an emotional trauma such as the death of a loved one
•Stress from a serious medical illness
•Side effect of medication
•Use of an illicit drug, such as cocaine
•Symptom of a medical illness (such as heart attack, heat stroke, hypoglycemia)
•Lack of oxygen in circumstances as diverse as high altitude sickness, emphysema, or pulmonary embolism (a blood clot in the vessels of the lung)
Last edited by Sociopath1983 on Fri Jan 23, 2015 8:46 pm, edited 1 time in total.


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Sociopath1983 wrote:
Elite Lookmaxer wrote:
...which is usually caused by low T/high E combo. Get tested

Yes ONLY low T can cause anxiety! :roll: :roll: :roll:

Common causes of anxiety include these mental conditions:
•Panic disorder: In addition to anxiety, common symptoms of panic disorders are palpitations (feeling your heart beat), dizziness, and shortness of breath. These same symptoms also can be caused by coffee (caffeine), amphetamines, an overactive thyroid, abnormal heart rhythms, and other heart abnormalities (such as mitral valve prolapse).
•Generalized anxiety disorder
•Phobic disorders
•Stress disorders

These common external factors can cause anxiety:
•Stress at work
•Stress from school
•Stress in a personal relationship such as marriage
•Financial stress
•Stress from an emotional trauma such as the death of a loved one
•Stress from a serious medical illness
•Side effect of medication
•Use of an illicit drug, such as cocaine
•Symptom of a medical illness (such as heart attack, heat stroke, hypoglycemia)
•Lack of oxygen in circumstances as diverse as high altitude sickness, emphysema, or pulmonary embolism (a blood clot in the vessels of the lung)


Listen to the Sociopath. This is pretty legit. Although the chances of you having mitral valve prolapse, altitude sickness, emphysema or a pulmonary embolism are staggeringly fucking small, the rest could very well have a bearing.

You'll only feel inferior if you're having sex with a woman that isn't repulsive. If you completely dominate a woman in looks then you'd get her to service you. Us incels need to run blind female game in order for that to happen though.

Remember as an average man, if you're attracted to her, she's probably out of your league.
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gobman3000 wrote:Remember as an average man, if you're attracted to her, she's probably out of your league.

cool story bro
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sensorydeprivation wrote:You people need to seriously fuck off to some social anxiety help forum or some shit.

Im so fucking tired of my one and only outlet for the LMS values to be infested with little children who are scared because of unrelated issues. Please just go fuck yourselves and leave me and the handful of valuable posters alone.

Thank you.


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It's a sure fire indicator that you have zero self-esteem & confidence.
Eww face?
Know your place.
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Lol same here

I can't even imagine a naked girl in my bed. I would be so clueless I'd probably run away lol

I'm afraid of my dick size being inadequate. That's basically it. I would almost rather not even have sex then experience humiliation over it knowing that all women fuck and expect big dicked chads. However notice how I say "almost" though. I can still blast past that anxiety when an opportunity presents itself. The problem is I'm actually just too ugly to get any opportunity at all. Not complicated
Captain Cuck wrote:I remember watching the video to this, absolute classic. I wish every women could experience this and like wise, men experience the foretold toils of the female life such as being "harassed". Then they would know what life is like for the sub 20th percent male. I.e chronically ignored for the entirety of an existence and expected to simply "man up", get a job, provide like a cuckold and die.

I'm more afraid of psychological intimacy. Coming clean and expressing my thoughts and complimenting people (not only women). I'll more likely express my true feelings to a random stranger than a friend I've known for 10 years. All this makes me cringe/anxious and inhibits my socialising hence why I'm an incel now. Trust issues, I guess

NO TRUST WITHOUT SHAME
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finally a thread I can relate to. If a female showed interest in me (hypothetical scenario), then I would also run away scared. I am a FAGGOT!!

youlookbettermewing wrote:im also afraid of sex. i have typical social anxiety simptoms like cold sweat, sweaty palms, diarrhea etc. when some girl shows sexual interest in me which happened 2 times. first time i told her i cant come to her house for some reason and she stopped talking to me. 2nd time she was whale and i was at her house and i said i need to go to the store when she started touching my legs.

when i see girl wanting to have sex with me my fight or flight instinct turns on and i flee


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