Cleck out the free ebook "Pandora's Box: The Men's Sexual Revolution" at this link:
I've written a 30-page ebook which I believe will be extremely helpful and eye-opening to many men who have had difficulty in finding a partner, or feel they have been treated poorly on a consistant basis. I want this book to be freely shared and distributed. It contains no seduction community propoganda. In fact, it speaks against many of the common bullshit Pickup Artist delusions. There are some dark truths out there, which men in general should seriously consider if they want to ever have a truly loving relationship with a woman. Many of the ideas expressed in the book are highly controversial and emotionally charged, but I believe a paradigm shift in our cultural reasoning is necessary if we are to bring true peace between the sexes. I'm not trying to sell anything, here. I wrote this ebook straight from the heart, and it is my personal stand for what I believe in. Regarding the true nature of female sexual attraction, I honestly believe there is a deeply held and cherished cultural deception that is keeping both genders unhappy, and unfulfilled.
Since many reading this post will either identify as involuntarily celibate, or as part of the broader "manosphere", let me say I can truly relate to the frustration, anger, confusion, and negative experiences. However, I shall put forth the idea that many are misguided as to what would truly help us get along better with the womenfolk. The manosphere, though still considered a deeply underground subculture, has been steadily gaining in popularity for several years. Because of such deep pain and other negative emotions many of the aware men have experienced, there will indeed be a greater tendency as a group toward lashing out against women as a whole. For that reason, I would strongly urge keeping a cool head, and not thinking emotionally. The media is quick to paint MRA's InCels, PUAs, and whatever else from the alphabet soup I missed, with a broad, black brush. Men's issues are inconvenient, but they are becoming more obvious, and that scares those who continue to benefit from the suffering of disenfranchised males.
There are real problems that society does not want to acknowlege, and their willful ignorance will only make things worse for everyone in the future. Let's face it, guys, most women KNOW that many of the things men in the "manosphere" speak of are correct. It is taboo for women to admit that certain things are true, so they are pressured to pretend they are ignorant. The general manosphere is composed of men who see evidence of cultural deception, yet I don't believe many of their conclusions about what they see are accurate. Men are slowly waking up, but many of those who are awake are still seeing darkly.
The root of it all is an inherently offensive truth that has had a powerful influence in human history: Looks matter. We acknowledge it in a very simple, polite way that deceptively understates the true magnitude of how much this is so. Looks do matter to men, yes, but...and here's where the can of worms opens up....looks matter significantly MORE to women than they do to men. Wait! Think. Don't just react and start bleating cliched slogans. Use your head. Stay with me, here.... The cute girl/plain guy couples you see? There's typically more going on than you think. Many women feel like they have to settle if they want commitment, and many of them value commitment more than true love. Yes, I'm saying many women may "like" the man they are with, even love him in non-sexual way, but they often feel very conflicted because the sexual attraction simply isn't there. Relationships like that are doomed to fall apart. It's a major factor in the number of sexless marriages and high divorce rates.
The majority of women are only sexually attracted to the same narrow range of men, who all share common physical traits. There aren't enough of those men to go around, so they find they have to lower their standards and settle for a loveless marriage if they want commitment. We as a society are going to have to face some uncomfortable facts, eventually. There is a way that men could solve the issue, which doesn't involve returning to barbaric traditions, trying to revoke women's rights, or just accepting our fates as genetic rejects if we lack the physical requirements for true love. I believe mutual happiness between the sexes is possible, provided we agree to acknowlege some tough realities, forgive each other, and do something that has never been done before (which is explained in depth in the book).
As many of the ideas expressed in this book are highly controversial and emotionally charged, I don't expect it to be taken seriously at first. I feel I have laid out logical arguments for my positions, and it is up to the reader to decide wether or not those arguments are valid. My only reason for being here is to share the book and that's it. I have no interest in sticking around and debating my position. The reader can take it or leave it.
Above all, I want only good things to come as a result of sharing this. Even though my language in the book is often abrasive, shocking, and disturbing, my real intention is a move toward peace between the sexes. Pandora's box has been opened already years ago, as men have been slowly waking up to the fact that something isn't right, even if many aren't quite sure exactly what they are seeing. Nonetheless, there is hope for a happier future for both sexes, as long as we understand the biological basis for all the confusion and deception. Women are not morally evil. They are in a difficult, often desperate situation, which is why they behave the way they do. They HAVE to settle for less than what they want, or stay single, and THAT is the reason for so much of their neurotic behavior. We, as men, have the power to end the confusion, animosity and deception on both sides. If we realign our cultural thinking to a new paradigm regarding physical appearance, mutual romantic love for most men and women CAN be a reality, not just a cultural myth we all cherish as a coping mechanism.
If you believe looks matter more to women than they want us to believe, you HAVE to read this book! You will be provided with plenty of tools to refute those who continue to buy into the cultural delusion that women are less visual than men. Since I've lurked on this forum for years without registering, I am familiar with "LMS Theory". Perhaps "Pandora's Box: The Men's Sexual Revolution" could become the "LMS Bible"....though admittedly, it is extremely skewed toward "L". Nonetheless, it ties together how "M" and "S" play a part.
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