puanewb wrote:Why can I draw two parallels
If I am with someone else, and my cat is there, my cat hates my guts, runs from me, etc.
Yet, if I am alone with my cat she is friendly and desiring of my affection.
Likewise this situation with females. If I am alone with a girl, she likes me, if I am with other people I am disliked.
If this happens it means the cat and/or the woman see you as lower value but are happy to use you when they want. If other people are around then the woman/cat feels it will be judged for being with a lower value specimen thus lowering her options with other men/humans.
You're essentially there until something better comes along. If a cat finds someone with more food and things to play with it will leave you, same with a woman.