I dont have approach anxiety

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I would more call it "approach futilty"

basically I cant get myself to approach because I have this feeling "she will reject me 99,99% so why bother ?"

Anyone feeling like this ?

How to get rid of this ?
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That's a great term. You can't get rid of it cause it's true.

EscortAddict wrote:I would more call it "approach futilty"

basically I cant get myself to approach because I have this feeling "she will reject me 99,99% so why bother ?"

Anyone feeling like this ?

How to get rid of this ?


Theres no way around it. If you want to have sex with a civilian you are going to have to get out of your comfort zone. You could have a few drinks and try it. Like me you will probably find out that getting rejected isn't really that bad. Rejection starts to become a problem when you get rejected like 100 times in a row. If you are average looking, socially normal, approach women in your looks league and live in a big city you will probably get laid off of doing 5 to 10 approaches.

EscortAddict wrote:I would more call it "approach futilty"

basically I cant get myself to approach because I have this feeling "she will reject me 99,99% so why bother ?"

Anyone feeling like this ?

How to get rid of this ?


This is typical for like 99.9% of male population , not just you.

Just wear some classy/expensive Patek Philippe, and try to run "dat mega yacht life" game, or something. Some women just love these kind of games, even though deep inside them, they know what you don't have "dat mega yacht" . BUT It is kinda cosplay-ish and they love this kind of game.
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Imo, it's just about being a bit mysterious and make her want to learn more about you and your lifestyle or something. If you are totally plain she will understand it from the 1st moment... and here comes rejection.

lms_zombie wrote:Imo, it's just about being a bit mysterious and make her want to learn more about you and your lifestyle or something. If you are totally plain she will understand it from the 1st moment... and here comes rejection.


good luck with that if you are not a hollywood actor



lms_zombie wrote:^ exaggerations... Hollywood actor , lel


Do you think you are the first man who has the idea to lie to a women to get her in bed ? :roll:

pikachu wrote:you don't have approach anxiety?

lol!

have you even done an approach to test it? vienna is a huge place, go to several plazas and open like 10 girls in each place to ask for their number

tell us how it went


I approached lot of girls in the past, some very hot ones as well, probabably around 200-300. it's just a pain in the ass

You don't need to lie to her, you cant lie anyway. I never suggested something like this. Women are genetically programmed to understand lies in advance.

I said, be mysterious. Mysterious, in way that she wants learn more about you, excite her.

Don't expect that with a fake Ferrari key holder for example you going to fuck her tonight.

The Patek Philippe example is just about right. Why? Because it is there (she can see it, and evaluate it), it is expensive , it isn't flashy, instead it is classy, it isn't another fake Rolex.

This is how she is getting mindfucked: She starts to think, is this a real one? Why did he buy this classy watch and not a fake Rolex, or a genuine Rolex/Tag heuer or something ? Then she thinks that the man is classy and not a crowd victim, eventually maybe she decides to fuck him.

That was just a small example.

lms_zombie wrote:You don't need to lie to her, you cant lie anyway. I never suggested something like this. Women are genetically programmed to understand lies in advance.

I said, be mysterious. Mysterious, in way that she wants learn more about you, excite her.

Don't expect that with a fake Ferrari key holder for example you going to fuck her tonight.

The Patek Philippe example is just about right. Why? Because it is there (she can see it, and evaluate it), it is expensive , it isn't flashy, instead it is classy, it isn't another fake Rolex.

This is how she is getting mindfucked: She starts to think, is this a real one? Why did he buy this classy watch and not a fake Rolex, or a genuine Rolex/Tag heuer or something ? Then she thinks that the man is classy and not a crowd victim, eventually maybe she decides to fuck him.

That was just a small example.


sounds like pua bullshit.

if she doesnt like your looks this wont help you, and if she does like your looks, you dont need this bullshit, just be normal & escalate.

the only legit strategy is to find the girls who are DTF (for you) and how to extract her from the location.

EscortAddict wrote:
lms_zombie wrote:You don't need to lie to her, you cant lie anyway. I never suggested something like this. Women are genetically programmed to understand lies in advance.

I said, be mysterious. Mysterious, in way that she wants learn more about you, excite her.

Don't expect that with a fake Ferrari key holder for example you going to fuck her tonight.

The Patek Philippe example is just about right. Why? Because it is there (she can see it, and evaluate it), it is expensive , it isn't flashy, instead it is classy, it isn't another fake Rolex.

This is how she is getting mindfucked: She starts to think, is this a real one? Why did he buy this classy watch and not a fake Rolex, or a genuine Rolex/Tag heuer or something ? Then she thinks that the man is classy and not a crowd victim, eventually maybe she decides to fuck him.

That was just a small example.


sounds like pua bullshit.

if she doesnt like your looks this wont help you, and if she does like your looks, you dont need this bullshit, just be normal & escalate.

the only legit strategy is to find the girls who are DTF (for you) and how to extract her from the location.


Obviously you need good/decent looks, else nothing's going to work.

The gold standard is: over 6 feet, good skin (yellowish tint if it's summer, this shows that you have social life and that you go out to beaches with friends and not inside your mom's basement, also it doesn't look brown = not arab/ethnikk), light eyes, light brown/dark blond hair, without physical deformities.

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