Fear of rejection is the #1 cause of inceldom

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Almost everybody here could get a looksmatched girlfriend or a girl even 1 or 2 points ahead if they mass approached and used numbers game as an advantage. But the redpill got to your heads, and has now made you feel insecure about your looks, social status, wealth, social class, aspieness, height and whatnot.

You need to fight that fear. If you're not getting good results with women, you gotta change things up. If being an incel is really putting a damper on your life, then not at least warm approaching 10 girls a day is foolish. You have nothing to lose; it's almost as if some of you enjoy your inceldom. It sure seems like it.

What does a sane person do when their upset about a certain part of their life? They do everything in their power to fix it.
We have guys on here complaining about inceldom who haven't had a real conversation with a girl in 3 or 4 years. Just lol @ not thinking it's at least a little bit of your fault when that's the case. Lower your goddamn inhibitions!



Shut up you know nothing, I get rejected because i am average looking
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yea bud. thing is you need to have a decent amount going for you in other areas to sustain the ego damage necessary to transition from incel shutin to normal adjusted guy. most of us can do it but it takes a lot of embarrassment in the process (srs)

thereturnofabulldog wrote:Shut up you know nothing, I get rejected because i am average looking


Lol one 6 rejected you and now you lost all of of your confidence. What a pussy. What happened to arguing that you were an 8? Puahate couldn't have ruined you that bad, right?

Besides you're far from average. You're not even close to being in the 50th percentile. More like 80th at worst
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I'll agree that fear is probably holding a lot of people back here more than looks. I am not picky and if I went out and just approached 10 girls which I could easily do in one weekend I could probably have a girlfriend. Cold approach isn't total bullocks the aspies here just say its weird because they are scared to do it. No matter how you meet a new person there is a good chance that there maybe a few awkward moments just because you don't know each other that well.

howdidiwinduphere wrote:
thereturnofabulldog wrote:Shut up you know nothing, I get rejected because i am average looking


Lol one 6 rejected you and now you lost all of of your confidence. What a pussy. What happened to arguing that you were an 8? Puahate couldn't have ruined you that bad, right?

Besides you're far from average. You're not even close to being in the 50th percentile. More like 20th at worst


Yeah i was bluepilled IRL , I am no way near 8 i am average .
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BiffTannen wrote:True mass approaching is terrible for your self esteem and not the sign of a well rounded individual.


You guys wouldn't need to mass approach if you had a social circle and life like most people. The only reason you'd ever be in the predicament of needing to cold approach to get laid would be in you're a lone wolf type guy. You made you're own bed.

In the 4-7 range social circle is everything and can make or break you. It's only once you're 8+ can you be successful playing the dating game by yourself. Or sub 4 in which you shouldn't start playing the game in the first place

Mass approaching is for losers. Approaching chicks you have social proximity with is everything. If you can't do that, then game over.
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SupportLocalSluts wrote:Mass approaching is for losers. Approaching chicks you have social proximity with is everything. If you can't do that, then game over.


Agreed, but lots of guys here don't have social proximity to any chicks. So there's only a few more options; mass approaching or online dating. Or you know, you can always become more social.. That's always on the table ya know lmao

You want me to go out there and have women after woman recoil in disgust when I approach?

Women immediatelt start frowning as soon as they see me and I know for a fact its the same with others.

Did you not see the guy with Crouzons? Did you not see the difference in reaction between Tyson Beckford and girls from Tyra Banks model show vs the guy with crouzons and that one Spanish girl?

Looks will forever hold us back. We dont have a chance with any women and need to accept that. Enough of this already.

Accept that women want Tall Robust, large framed DOM men. If you aren't large framed and dom you are going to die alone.
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Virgil wrote:You want me to go out there and have women after woman recoil in disgust when I approach?

Women immediatelt start frowning as soon as they see me and I know for a fact its the same with others.

Did you not see the guy with Crouzons? Did you not see the difference in reaction between Tyson Beckford and girls from Tyra Banks model show vs the guy with crouzons and that one Spanish girl?

Looks will forever hold us back. We dont have a chance with any women and need to accept that. Enough of this already.

Accept that women want Tall Robust, large framed DOM men. If you are large framed and dom you are going to die alone.


You're comparing 2 opposite ends of the spectrum. There's a huge middle ground. Now I'm not saying it's wise to approach is you're sub-5, but there are plenty (and I mean plenty) 5-7 posters on here who are still incel. Looks aren't their problem. Fear of rejection is.
It's not that rare either. Most guys are scared shitless of being rejected. But for a group of guys who think that if they get laid, their whole lives will drastically improve then it's worth it.
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BiffTannen wrote:
howdidiwinduphere wrote:Now I'm not saying it's wise to approach is you're sub-5.

50% of people are sub 5. It's not rare. Maybe you mean sub 4?


No, lots of people are dead average. But yeah sub-4 is more like the point of hopelessness, unless you care for dating an ugly looksmatch
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almost no one does mass approaching in real life

real slayers have a very good eye for detecting girls that are down to fuck, they are very selective in which girls they approach. I know this because I went out with slayer friend a lot in the past. one time he was like "hey escortaddict, you see this girl on the other side of the room ? she likes me" 10 minute later he was making out with her. still he does a lot of approaching, but like 5 approache each night. not like some stupid pua idiot running from girl to girl
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Recently, on the Facebook page of my city, one girl has WARNED other chicks of some guy who goes around the city and does mass cold approaches using PUA techniques (she wrote that), lol.

She described him as slim blonde guy between 25-27 years old

Other girls also commented that they know him, and that he can approach the same girl multiple times (like he forgets he already met her) and he uses the same pickup line every time :lol:

Of course they all rejected him apparently

Fear of rejection is more an effect than a cause of inceldom. I would say Abusive Helicopter Parents are the biggest cause of it. When you are nothing but your parents' newest Science Project, its pretty hard to relate to anyone socially.
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What's next? Fear of death is the #1 cause of not jumping off a fucking bridge?
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lmfao my looks matched would probably fuck 6/10's

(i'm a 2 btw)

i'm the next step up from a lovecraftian monstrosity
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i'm an 18 year old virgin i cant breath chew or sleep i have constant head aches i'm bullied by my family i'm ugly as fuck and everybody would be happier if i ate a bullet

Considering that half of people are probably below 5 here, no. It's not the main cause of inceldom. But it is a cause nontheless for users like Nordic or Lequack for example.

I don't know why people say everyone in this site is above average. Only a few posters objectively are.

You realize there are hordes of posters here that are scared of posting and pming their picture and getting real feedback.

I think some of us know the truth but dont want to face the monster head on and learn that they are fucked and fuckable womem have no reason to be with them.
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