Great thread, an archive of all this would be awesome. I have a few more examples of this saved, i'll post what i've got.http://www.redditlog.com/snapshots/75801
My [39M] friend [40M] is unknowingly dating an adult performer
I have a male friend (we'll call him Derek) who is a really great guy but is one of those guys who is always single and at the same time always talking about how lonely he is and how he'll never find anyone. I've worked with him a lot over the years on developing confidence and not "trying too hard" so he can be happy and find someone.
So I was delighted a three weekends ago when I was having a dinner party and he said he would be bringing a female guest that he met in his skiing club. He talked her up quite a bit and seemed excited about how much they had in common, etc.
Sidebar: I watch a lot of porn.
The night of the dinner party, the doorbell rings and here is Derek. He enters and then a woman enters behind him who he introduces. Immediately, I recognize her as a prolific adult performer/porn actress from the 90's. She wasn't high profile enough that just anyone might recognize her (like Jenna Jameson) but I can recall at least 25-30 scenes I've seen her in. I kind of made long eye contact with her after introducing myself and I got the vibe that she knew I recognized her.
The comments are filled with whiteknights, as usual.