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How it all starts
Posted on December 5, 2010 by omegaloser

So you are 30 or 40 something and “happily married”. This means you have spent the last 5 or 10 years solving material problems, rushing around, earning money…you have been a maternal auxiliary in a business whose purpose is to produce the highest quality (by common bourgeois standards) offspring and to accumulate as many resources as possible (which is never enough).

You need to beg more and more in order to get sex and each time there is less action and your wife is less involved. Sex is the activity with the lowest priority and she designs your life so as to make it impractical most of the time.

One day you realize it is virtually impossible to have sex, or you are fed up with begging or with dealing with an inert body eagerly waiting for the whole thing to end as soon as possible.

After a few months of complete celibacy you realize that you are becoming crazy. You lose interest and motivation in all things and lying along your wife in the bed at nights without any contact enrages you.

Your guilt eventually disappears and you decide to do something about it.

You have a physical need and your marriage does not fulfil this need. You list the options:

1. Masturbation

2. Virtual sex/pornography

3. Strip clubs

4. Prostitution/”Escorts”/Brothels

5. Homosexuality

6. Affairs, mistresses, etc.

7. Divorcing and finiding another “soulmate”.

As a low status male I am pretty clumsy at options 6 and 7 (and more fundamentally, I do not want them). So I have experienced the other options, starting from the bottom. This blog tells the story of my journey through these solutions (mostly option 4)
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Basing an entire synopsis around a post from a user called 'OmegaLoser' = must be true.

Norwood Cemetery wrote:Basing an entire synopsis around a post from a user called 'OmegaLoser' = must be true.

common, it's a well known fact that womens sex drive almost goes down to zero after they had children.

you can probably have an intact sex life without children, but most women marry with the intention of getting children... so good luck with that.

EscortAddict wrote:
Norwood Cemetery wrote:Basing an entire synopsis around a post from a user called 'OmegaLoser' = must be true.

common, it's a well known fact that womens sex drive almost goes down to zero after they had children.

you can probably have an intact sex life without children, but most women marry with the intention of getting children... so good luck with that.

I'm not disputing the lack of interest over time, just the ridiculous (even by my standards) hyperbole of the quoted post.

And like incels here will ever have the option of getting married in the first place.



Norwood Cemetery wrote:
EscortAddict wrote:common, it's a well known fact that womens sex drive almost goes down to zero after they had children.

you can probably have an intact sex life without children, but most women marry with the intention of getting children... so good luck with that.

I'm not disputing the lack of interest over time, just the ridiculous (even by my standards) hyperbole of the quoted post.

And like incels here will ever have the option of getting married in the first place.


the point of the post is, even if you have the option, it's better for you to not do it.

Norwood Cemetery wrote:
EscortAddict wrote:common, it's a well known fact that womens sex drive almost goes down to zero after they had children.

you can probably have an intact sex life without children, but most women marry with the intention of getting children... so good luck with that.

I'm not disputing the lack of interest over time, just the ridiculous (even by my standards) hyperbole of the quoted post.

And like incels here will ever have the option of getting married in the first place.


As an ugly hard core incel of 45 years, I concur that I will never get married, as much as I would liked to be, but the phenomenon of being "marcel",ie. married but no sex from wife is a very real one. Being a life long member of the escort crew or a "John", you get to know the sex workers you choose very well, and virtually all of the hookers I see, all tell me the same thing ie. most of their clients are actually married men.

A close friend of mine who has been married for almost 15 years, is in a virtually sexless marriage, and as a result he is miserable and sexually frustrated as shit.
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It's laughable that incels (kissless and virgins for the most part) will decry something like this. some marriages are sexually fulfilling for both parties - as fulfulling as the general insipidities of life allow. I've met quite a few very sexual women in their late 30s and early 40s and I think I've read in quite a few places that women tend to reach the height of their sexual libido at this age and in fact even a bit older, which would confute alot of the "marriage is sexless" diatribe that gets bellowed. Not to say a lot of marriages don't degrade (my own parents are a good example of a poor marriage) but for incels to act all knowing on subjects like this is just beyond laughable.



LMSghost wrote:It's laughable that incels (kissless and virgins for the most part) will decry something like this. some marriages are sexually fulfilling for both parties - as fulfulling as the general insipidities of life allow. I've met quite a few very sexual women in their late 30s and early 40s and I think I've read in quite a few places that women tend to reach the height of their sexual libido at this age and in fact even a bit older, which would confute alot of the "marriage is sexless" diatribe that gets bellowed. Not to say a lot of marriages don't degrade (my own parents are a good example of a poor marriage) but for incels to act all knowing on subjects like this is just beyond laughable.

Like you just have, you mean?

LMSghost wrote:It's laughable that incels (kissless and virgins for the most part) will decry something like this. some marriages are sexually fulfilling for both parties - as fulfulling as the general insipidities of life allow. I've met quite a few very sexual women in their late 30s and early 40s and I think I've read in quite a few places that women tend to reach the height of their sexual libido at this age and in fact even a bit older, which would confute alot of the "marriage is sexless" diatribe that gets bellowed. Not to say a lot of marriages don't degrade (my own parents are a good example of a poor marriage) but for incels to act all knowing on subjects like this is just beyond laughable.


As an ugly hard core incel myself, I have never professed to be an expert on the sex life of married couples. Sure, some married couples may have a sexually fulfilled marriage, and if that's the case, more power to them, but it cannot be denied that there are just as many sexless marriages as well.

How do you explain that the majority of men who frequent brothels are married men? As a "John" many of the hookers I speak to, confirm this.

Master Yoda wrote:
LMSghost wrote:It's laughable that incels (kissless and virgins for the most part) will decry something like this. some marriages are sexually fulfilling for both parties - as fulfulling as the general insipidities of life allow. I've met quite a few very sexual women in their late 30s and early 40s and I think I've read in quite a few places that women tend to reach the height of their sexual libido at this age and in fact even a bit older, which would confute alot of the "marriage is sexless" diatribe that gets bellowed. Not to say a lot of marriages don't degrade (my own parents are a good example of a poor marriage) but for incels to act all knowing on subjects like this is just beyond laughable.


As an ugly hard core incel myself, I have never professed to be an expert on the sex life of married couples. Sure, some married couples may have a sexually fulfilled marriage, and if that's the case, more power to them, but it cannot be denied that there are just as many sexless marriages as well.

How do you explain that the majority of men who frequent brothels are married men? As a "John" many of the hookers I speak to, confirm this.



I don't doubt that many married men go to hookers. After a while, all relationships will reach a kind of sexual homeostasis. You start off getting good pussy, regular blowjobs etc, maybe even plowing her ass a few times and then over time this will level off and plateau. I guess thats the best way to put it. Going to a young hooker and getting an expert blowjob, treating her like shit etc etc is just the type of shit that you can't do with your wife I'd suspect. I've no doubt that if I ever get married, I'll be regularly banging hookers from time to time myself. The thing is that a lot of incels have an attitude that they are "right" and "better" than normalfags who get married and they "know more" than the normalfag and are "better off" etc. "How stupid it is to get married, im smarter than that" etc, when the reality of the situation is that the incel would never have a chance to get married in the first place.

LMSghost wrote:
Master Yoda wrote:
As an ugly hard core incel myself, I have never professed to be an expert on the sex life of married couples. Sure, some married couples may have a sexually fulfilled marriage, and if that's the case, more power to them, but it cannot be denied that there are just as many sexless marriages as well.

How do you explain that the majority of men who frequent brothels are married men? As a "John" many of the hookers I speak to, confirm this.



I don't doubt that many married men go to hookers. After a while, all relationships will reach a kind of sexual homeostasis. You start off getting good pussy, regular blowjobs etc, maybe even plowing her ass a few times and then over time this will level off and plateau. I guess thats the best way to put it. Going to a young hooker and getting an expert blowjob, treating her like shit etc etc is just the type of shit that you can't do with your wife I'd suspect. I've no doubt that if I ever get married, I'll be regularly banging hookers from time to time myself. The thing is that a lot of incels have an attitude that they are "right" and "better" than normalfags who get married and they "know more" than the normalfag and are "better off" etc. "How stupid it is to get married, im smarter than that" etc, when the reality of the situation is that the incel would never have a chance to get married in the first place.


maybe hardcore incels. but trust me, the caliber of women here in my apparment block is very low, most incels could get such women. And these are the women most men are married to. If you want a "hot" wife... LOL good luck with that.

EscortAddict wrote:
LMSghost wrote:

I don't doubt that many married men go to hookers. After a while, all relationships will reach a kind of sexual homeostasis. You start off getting good pussy, regular blowjobs etc, maybe even plowing her ass a few times and then over time this will level off and plateau. I guess thats the best way to put it. Going to a young hooker and getting an expert blowjob, treating her like shit etc etc is just the type of shit that you can't do with your wife I'd suspect. I've no doubt that if I ever get married, I'll be regularly banging hookers from time to time myself. The thing is that a lot of incels have an attitude that they are "right" and "better" than normalfags who get married and they "know more" than the normalfag and are "better off" etc. "How stupid it is to get married, im smarter than that" etc, when the reality of the situation is that the incel would never have a chance to get married in the first place.


maybe hardcore incels. but trust me, the caliber of women here in my apparment block is very low, most incels could get such women. And these are the women most men are married to. If you want a "hot" wife... LOL good luck with that.



Some women age gracefully. A lot of the girls you see were probably much hotter 10-15 years ago. I will concede that an organic decline naturally occurs but some women do age gracefully and whats the alternative really? You are sitting here posting on an incel forum. At least a married guy, in a lot of cases, will get laid a couple of times a week and the companionship is another plus (which is a tough point to make to such clear misogynists).

LMSghost wrote:
EscortAddict wrote:
maybe hardcore incels. but trust me, the caliber of women here in my apparment block is very low, most incels could get such women. And these are the women most men are married to. If you want a "hot" wife... LOL good luck with that.



Some women age gracefully. A lot of the girls you see were probably much hotter 10-15 years ago. I will concede that an organic decline naturally occurs but some women do age gracefully and whats the alternative really? You are sitting here posting on an incel forum. At least a married guy, in a lot of cases, will get laid a couple of times a week and the companionship is another plus (which is a tough point to make to such clear misogynists).


well my long term plan (next 5 year) is to get an average girlfriend (I had girflriends in the past so this should be possible) and fuck whores on the side. But not marry her ofc. That's just stupid.

EscortAddict wrote:well my long term plan (next 5 year) is to get an average girlfriend (I had girflriends in the past so this should be possible) and fuck whores on the side. But not marry her ofc. That's just stupid.

Top tier plan there, Hannibal.

On the gross, gross assumption that you manage to secure the LTR, what makes you think you can exclusively control the marriage decision? Cunts no longer sit there being told what to do.

Norwood Cemetery wrote:
EscortAddict wrote:well my long term plan (next 5 year) is to get an average girlfriend (I had girflriends in the past so this should be possible) and fuck whores on the side. But not marry her ofc. That's just stupid.

Top tier plan there, Hannibal.

On the gross, gross assumption that you manage to secure the LTR, what makes you think you can exclusively control the marriage decision? Cunts no longer sit there being told what to do.


just delay it as much as possible and then ditch her. also a lot of women dont even want to marry theses days.

LMSghost wrote: At least a married guy, in a lot of cases, will get laid a couple of times a week and the companionship is another plus .

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LMSghost wrote:
Master Yoda wrote:
As an ugly hard core incel myself, I have never professed to be an expert on the sex life of married couples. Sure, some married couples may have a sexually fulfilled marriage, and if that's the case, more power to them, but it cannot be denied that there are just as many sexless marriages as well.

How do you explain that the majority of men who frequent brothels are married men? As a "John" many of the hookers I speak to, confirm this.



I don't doubt that many married men go to hookers. After a while, all relationships will reach a kind of sexual homeostasis. You start off getting good pussy, regular blowjobs etc, maybe even plowing her ass a few times and then over time this will level off and plateau. I guess thats the best way to put it. Going to a young hooker and getting an expert blowjob, treating her like shit etc etc is just the type of shit that you can't do with your wife I'd suspect. I've no doubt that if I ever get married, I'll be regularly banging hookers from time to time myself. The thing is that a lot of incels have an attitude that they are "right" and "better" than normalfags who get married and they "know more" than the normalfag and are "better off" etc. "How stupid it is to get married, im smarter than that" etc, when the reality of the situation is that the incel would never have a chance to get married in the first place.



As an incel, and an ugly hard core one at that, I have never taken the moral high ground on men who get married, as I actually support the institution of marriage (when it works). To be fair, there are some great women out there, and if you are lucky enough to meet her and spend the rest of your life with her, then good luck to you, I wouldn't wish incel even upon my worst enemy.

As for seeing hookers, the hookers I regularly see are actually mature age hookers (aged between 35 to 60), and they provide me with a great service, but at the same time I treat them with kindness and respect, as hookers are not paid to take shit, plus they are the "angels of mercy" for ugly men like me who can't get sex in the normal manner.

Once again many incels will never get married (even if they want to), and I know I am one of them who will never get married, but like my mother often tells me:

"Seb, you are better alone, rather than being destroyed by some slut". My mother says this because she has seen the sons of some of her friends get absolutely destroyed by their ex wives via the anti male divorce courts.

Master Yoda wrote:
LMSghost wrote:

I don't doubt that many married men go to hookers. After a while, all relationships will reach a kind of sexual homeostasis. You start off getting good pussy, regular blowjobs etc, maybe even plowing her ass a few times and then over time this will level off and plateau. I guess thats the best way to put it. Going to a young hooker and getting an expert blowjob, treating her like shit etc etc is just the type of shit that you can't do with your wife I'd suspect. I've no doubt that if I ever get married, I'll be regularly banging hookers from time to time myself. The thing is that a lot of incels have an attitude that they are "right" and "better" than normalfags who get married and they "know more" than the normalfag and are "better off" etc. "How stupid it is to get married, im smarter than that" etc, when the reality of the situation is that the incel would never have a chance to get married in the first place.



As an incel, and an ugly hard core one at that, I have never taken the moral high ground on men who get married, as I actually support the institution of marriage (when it works). To be fair, there are some great women out there, and if you are lucky enough to meet her and spend the rest of your life with her, then good luck to you, I wouldn't wish incel even upon my worst enemy.

As for seeing hookers, the hookers I regularly see are actually mature age hookers (aged between 35 to 60), and they provide me with a great service, but at the same time I treat them with kindness and respect, as hookers are not paid to take shit, plus they are the "angels of mercy" for ugly men like me who can't get sex in the normal manner.

Once again many incels will never get married (even if they want to), and I know I am one of them who will never get married, but like my mother often tells me:

"Seb, you are better alone, rather than being destroyed by some slut". My mother says this because she has seen the sons of some of her friends get absolutely destroyed by their ex wives via the anti male divorce courts.




Good post.

You can't miss what you never had.

I am curious about your standards. Would you marry a 40 year old woman who was past her best and had a few kids?

LMSghost wrote:
Master Yoda wrote:



As an incel, and an ugly hard core one at that, I have never taken the moral high ground on men who get married, as I actually support the institution of marriage (when it works). To be fair, there are some great women out there, and if you are lucky enough to meet her and spend the rest of your life with her, then good luck to you, I wouldn't wish incel even upon my worst enemy.

As for seeing hookers, the hookers I regularly see are actually mature age hookers (aged between 35 to 60), and they provide me with a great service, but at the same time I treat them with kindness and respect, as hookers are not paid to take shit, plus they are the "angels of mercy" for ugly men like me who can't get sex in the normal manner.

Once again many incels will never get married (even if they want to), and I know I am one of them who will never get married, but like my mother often tells me:

"Seb, you are better alone, rather than being destroyed by some slut". My mother says this because she has seen the sons of some of her friends get absolutely destroyed by their ex wives via the anti male divorce courts.




Good post.

You can't miss what you never had.

I am curious about your standards. Would you marry a 40 year old woman who was past her best and had a few kids?



Thanks, and to answer your question yes, I would marry a 40 year old or older woman, as I actually prefer older women (young women have always treated me like shit and are immature), but in any case I don't have much of a choice. As for marrying a woman with kids from a previous relationship, probably not, you find women who have kids to another man are still carrying the emotional baggage, plus I refuse to pay for someone elses kids.


When you are an ugly hard core incel like at me who is 45, women see you as being worthless.

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