We went to a party out of state, where the wife met up with her old college friends. As the night went on, everyone was drunk except me, since I was driving. Inhibitions went out the window, and stories of college debauchery were shared. It was awkward for me, listening to this group of women discussing their sexual escapades, so I excused myself to the washroom. When I came back I got close enough to them so I could hear, but they couldnt see me. My wife and her friends were laughing about all the stuff they had done, which included:
They had a competition between them to see how many members of the football team they could get with. One of them had a girlfriend and rejected her, they trash talked his girlfriend/concluded he was gay. They had a chart that ranked guys in terms of penis size. Some guy named Jeremy had the biggest one and they kept talking about it, seemingly they had all slept with him/missed him. They would target nerdy/inexperienced guys and got off on rejecting them, to the point where they'd get naked in bed with them and then deny them sex, and then ignore them if they ever saw them again. These are just some of the things that they did.
My wife had told me that she had been with 3 guys before me, all long term boyfriends. I was pretty angry on the drive home but I didnt say anything. This was last night. I really really dont like what I heard. Im afraid that if I bring it up she will flip it on me for spying on their conversation, or she will deny everything, or minimize it. I know what I heard, and remembering her laughing and agreeing with it still hurts.
tl;dr: Wife lied about her promiscuous past, emotionally hurt by this, afraid to confront her, what do I do?