Around the year 2005 the amount of overweight/obese women surpassed the amount of healthy women here in the UK (I have the stats). Things were shit a few years before 2005, but got even shitter afterwards. The faeces log really swoll up went down the shoot around 2007-09. It's now 61% or something. I'm afraid fat women are the norm and a man wanting healthy weight / thin women is seen as a "entitled prick" among British femoids.
Men with options -- and men who are healthy and concerned about their own weight regardless if Chad or not-- usually don't date fat women (unless they have a BBW fetish). Just because you see such couples doesn't mean it's that's men's preference, he's settling in most cases. I'd say 70% of men you see with fat women don't really desire them. They check out normal weight or fit women more than they do their porcine gf/wife. It's just a matter of numbers. So there's more women today who are overweight or obese than there are healthy. That's what's out there. So for many, especially men with few options (incels/beta-looking guys, short guys, framecels, blue collar or low income guys, nerds, baldcels, autists), it's a choice of a big woman or no woman.
I'd rather have no woman and have regular trips to Thailand to unleash some sexual frustration. Or just use escorts. I will use a fleshlight at other times. This is how its gonna be for millions of British / American men for the future.
I've had my own weight issues, but going from 192lbs down to a healthy 168-170lbs due to a natural food diet and working a labouring job made no difference in my ability to attract a normal weight or thin 5/10 British woman. Not even single moms. Likewise, I was once 154lbs and very fit in my middle twenties. Still made no difference back then and that was year 2002/3. What holds me back is my jaw, height (or lack of ~ 5'9.75), hairline and bones, as well as my "low status" occupation.
So, yeah.. if your an average/flawed joe that's healthy weight, your gonna get shamed when you go for the thin women, regardless if their face looks like a borzoi saluki and she has tattoos and two kids from a previous relationship with Chad. Thin women are jealously guarded now, even ugly-ish ones. Like green belts... you can't go dropping bricks on that land without special permission.
At least in Thailand (and a few remaining European countries) you can find numerous thin women to have sex with that don't have the "holier-than-thou... now fuck off!" attitude.
We're not indestructible
Baby better get that straight
I think it's unbelievable
How you give into the hands of Chad
Some things are worth fighting for (but not your smelly cunt)
Some feelings never die
I'm not asking for another chance
I just wanna know why
There's no easy way out
There's no shortcut home
There's no easy way out
Giving up can't be wrong