3D Face Analysis wrote:Men get judged for being single. This is one reason why so many men are desperate to get a girlfriend and want to show off their girlfriends. So they do not get judged...
Women automatically make negative assumptions about single men and not respect them (unless he is Chad or gay or boyfriend potential); single men have to make a large effort to prove they are "cool enough" just to get respect from women. Guilty until proven innocent. Negative assumptions could become self-fulfilling prophecies.
Why be a dancing monkey just to be seen as cool and get people to like you? That is truly the most beta thing you can do as a guy.
I am so fed up with this whole "you are not entitled to sex" bullshit as well, coming mostly from the femioidsphere and #metoo harpies (who think they're victims of a sex crime because some ugly guy hit on them and not a Chad). I'm sure there are individuals out there who hold the opinion they're owed sex, but that is not a license to make sweeping overgeneralizations extending to every man who struggles with loneliness and has the audacity to express a human emotional response to it. It also implies all we care about is sex for the sake of sex when it's much broader than that. It's about not having someone to share our lives with; to come home to after a stressful day and know we are not alone in the world. To be able to have children, have a home life and start a family of our own.
I and people like me are upset because we are unable to obtain a fundamental human need, not because we believe we are being denied something that is owed to us.
Consider this: how about all the other people; the vast majority of our society for whom relationships and sex come naturally and often with minimal effort. Is it because they are owed sex?! Of course not! It's simply because they all have at least one thing about them that some find attractive, (usually looks, good money), or they have super low standards and date very fat people, while people like me don't.
We're not angry at women because they won't sleep with us. We're sad, frustrated, and depressed because we are alone and unwanted by our relative looksmatches and always will be.
If The Red Pill is to be believed, there is incredible competition for non-obese women. And because of the inflated attention the average woman gets from online dating, even the obese ones expect to be able to attract a healthy weight man. If you ascribe to the idea that you ought to realistically stay within your "league" for dating, the unhappy-making truth is that being average looking as a white man puts you in the same league as being noticeably overweight does for a white woman.
Yes, I'm fine with dating a 'slightly 'overweight girl, a 1lb 10lbs sort of overweight, but any bigger and they're the exact opposite of my preference (petite, slender women with small breasts and small ass).
The only way out of this is to tell other men to higher their expectations. The internet era just created whiteknighting overload. Female 5's who are healthy think they're 9's due to all the attention they get. This is truly the case that created this mess.
The only way for "ugly" men (girl code for any sub 7 white male Caucasian below 6ft) is to try other ethnicity groups. For East/South Asians and S-Americans (all of healthy weight) reply/message me first the most; significantly more than Caucasians. The only Caucasians who ever messaged me first were very overweight ones, yes....there's undeniable correlation in that (I'm talking when I was slim... not my overweight days) they do see you as being in their own league and plain healthy girls see chads/chad-lites as their own league.