I did a gatekeeper's job at a Private Boarding School in the UK, at the girl's wing and dormitory no less, and it was exactly as you described.
It was the inverse of a commoner's school where instead of looking for the hotties, it was a case of find an ugly. I found none.
Despite being 15-18 tops these girls were all 6 foot plus tall, wore shiny black tights, pantyhose, skin tight pencil skirts, high heels had super modelesque, popstar faces but had a high class phenotype with posh names like Felicity, Nikol or Lilly.
But when we moved to the boy's wing I got amogged by a near 7 foot tall, Ayrian WASP male with a Bavarian, Austrian, Swizz phenotype, slick golden hair with the hottest piece of Eastern European ass who'd wipe the floor with a Kardashian as she had natural DD breasts.
If it weren't for a few Black Jocks I'd say I had been teleported to a Fascist Summer in Nazi Germany in the 1930s.
It is so legit what you said, it's rare to find an ugly among them just as it is rare to find a jewel among filth, I do not know however the full extent of your pain, I only had to walk past them, sometimes stand near their proximity, but to serve as their gate keeper? destimed by the all father to witness the come and go of angels while you yourself a deformed cretin with no choice but to bow your head low and serve the grander beings with contempt? You brother has been through too much.
It is the same everywhere, whether it's the east or the west, the warm south or the cold north, the disparity between class is far too significant, while Gandhi preaches the difference in the distribution of wealth, even he failed to forsee what is truly important, beauty.
Some are born into sweet delight, we are born into the endless night