Modern definition of "dating"

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Modern definition of "dating" = women dating and hooking up with multiple men at the same time (including Chads who she knows will never commit).

Traditionally, dating used to be exclusive. You only have sex with one partner at a time. But modern "dating" often implies that women are free to date and hook up with multiple men at the same time, before she officially decides to commit to one man.

Women often do this secretively, and if a man finds out and gets upset or jealous, this will be blamed on the man, rather than being blamed on the women for being dishonest. Women will use these excuses:
"We did not commit yet. This means that I have the right to date and hook up with other men at the same time without telling you".
"You are being old fashioned."
"You are being judgmental."
"You are being controlling."



If girls were really that easy, they would be more willing to date me, but so far I just get rejected over and over.

Or maybe it's because I'm not part of the "cock carousel".

Okay, I get it. What you're saying is consistent with "red pill" theory.

Women often do this secretively, and if a man finds out and gets upset or jealous, this will be blamed on the man, rather than being blamed on the women for being dishonest. Women will use these excuses:
The foundation of blame isn't predicated on right or wrong. The balance scale of blame/ innocent is predicated upon female self-interest, not around her own faults being a factor. And if there is sincere evidence of factors around the instability of a situation from her own infidelity, then she just blames it on the man. She is not to be blamed in her eyes, she will just create every rationality to exonerate the pressure society might see on her as a "wrongdoer". For a woman, blame comes to those who point out fault, who put reality of blame over her own interest.

Old fashioned is just the terminology for "a time when women were accountable". Women felt they were denied hteir due of fairness in every age past. Being unfair is only equality at this point. Payback. It's just that male egos would not accept it, so they just undertone tuck it underneath all of her veneers of moral rationalization for their own cuntishness.
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Eugenicist wrote:
Women often do this secretively, and if a man finds out and gets upset or jealous, this will be blamed on the man, rather than being blamed on the women for being dishonest. Women will use these excuses:
The foundation of blame isn't predicated on right or wrong. The balance scale of blame/ innocent is predicated upon female self-interest, not around her own faults being a factor. And if there is sincere evidence of factors around the instability of a situation from her own infidelity, then she just blames it on the man. She is not to be blamed in her eyes, she will just create every rationality to exonerate the pressure society might see on her as a "wrongdoer". For a woman, blame comes to those who point out fault, who put reality of blame over her own interest.

Old fashioned is just the terminology for "a time when women were accountable". Women felt they were denied hteir due of fairness in every age past. Being unfair is only equality at this point. Payback. It's just that male egos would not accept it, so they just undertone tuck it underneath all of her veneers of moral rationalization for their own cuntishness.


This video and the comments section are examples of women shifting the blame onto the men when it is the woman's fault for being dishonest. Only one women near the end of the video said to keep it honest so "nobody gets hurt". https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WeoedHapQAY

And if a man becomes angry and calls the women a "slut" or "thot" for being dishonest then he is slut shaming. I read an article for women about how to date multiple men at eHow and it said to ignore the "haters" who call you a slut and said that there is nothing wrong with it.



Cheating and having a high number of sexual partners have both become so common that anyone shaming a woman for doing it is called out instead of the whore in question. He is the bitter jealous entitled man who can't deal with the fact that he " can't own his woman ", that past is past and that there is nothing wrong with sex.

And these people will always find an excuse for their actions. I called out a woman over the fact that she would get drunk and suck off guys she barely knew in club bathrooms. But hey she "dated" each one of them a few weeks so by her words she was not a slut.

I had a guy literally tell me that i need to stop slut shaming her like he was making fun of SJW faggots but he was dead serious. So i called him a faggot and cut all contact with him

PaulieJurkiewicz wrote:Cheating and having a high number of sexual partners have both become so common that anyone shaming a woman for doing it is called out instead of the whore in question. He is the bitter jealous entitled man who can't deal with the fact that he " can't own his woman ", that past is past and that there is nothing wrong with sex.

And these people will always find an excuse for their actions. I called out a woman over the fact that she would get drunk and suck off guys she barely knew in club bathrooms. But hey she "dated" each one of them a few weeks so by her words she was not a slut.

I had a guy literally tell me that i need to stop slut shaming her like he was making fun of SJW faggots but he was dead serious. So i called him a faggot and cut all contact with him


It's natural for men to be envious of a woman's past sexual partners, in particular the men who are more attractive than you who she had no-strings-attached sex with.

It's natural to be envious. This is the very reason why relationships exist. Closed relationships (in contrast to open relationships) are exclusive between one man and one women. A woman cannot fuck other men within a relationship. Otherwise one party would get envious. This is the reason why closed relationships are common compared to open relationships. Closed relationships help to minimize envy.

If the reason why closed relationships exist is because they help to eliminate envy, why do people suddenly think it is wrong or unnatural to be envious about her past partners?

Why does society think it is wrong for a man to refuse to commit to a slut to minimize the envy issues that could arise later on? If a man chooses to only commit to a virgin to minimize envy issues, somehow this is wrong? Even though this is the same reason why closed relationships exist, which is to minimize envy issues?

PaulieJurkiewicz wrote:that past is past


But if she breaks up with you, she might go back to hook up with her past hookup buddies again.



3D Face Analysis wrote:
It's natural for men to be envious of a woman's past sexual partners, in particular the men who could easily get casual sex with her without requiring him to jump through hoops.

It's natural to be envious. This is the very reason why relationships exist. Closed relationships (in contrast to open relationships) are exclusive between one man and one women. A woman cannot fuck other men within a relationship. Otherwise one party would get envious. This is the reason why closed relationships are common compared to open relationships. Closed relationships help to minimize envy.

If the reason why closed relationships exist is because they help to eliminate envy, why do people suddenly think it is wrong or unnatural to be envious about her past partners?

Why does society think it is wrong for a man to refuse to commit to a slut to minimize the envy issues that could arise later on? If a man chooses to only commit to a virgin to minimize envy issues, somehow this is wrong? Even though this is the same reason why closed relationships exist, which is to minimize envy issues?


I don't think it is jealousy or just jealousy. I do not even believe that levels of sexual promiscuity which we see now are not even natural for us but might be natural for sub Saharan Africans and some other groups of people. Raising another man's children certainly goes against the male nature.

There is a strong social pressure on attractive or semi attractive people to continue having "fun" and getting laid with as many people as possible to "not miss out". What do you think a woman who only had sex with her current boyfriend get told by their female friends? "What, you only plan to have sex with one guy your whole life? You are really missing out and you can't decide until you get more "experienced" by experiencing more men."

The social engineering can be clearly seen with all these women ignoring their natural instincts and not having children or even aborting them. It's not normal to kill your offspring when you are perfectly capable of taking care of it.

3D Face Analysis wrote:
PaulieJurkiewicz wrote:that past is past


But if she breaks up with you, she might go back to hook up with her past hookup buddies again.


I have seen cases of ex boyfriends sending current boyfriends naked pictures of their gf's from the time they were dating. I knew a woman who was being extorted by her ex but had so many exe's that she had no way of telling which one was doing it.

If in 20 years some guy anonymously messages you with links to videos of your wife being fucked in her youth she probably won't be able to tell which one of her many boyfriends filmed it and police will have to get involved. And it's not a far fetched thing to think that way.

I am sure these things will be rare but still not as uncommon as most people think. In the future most women will have several sex tapes and hundreds of naked pictures to her name. Actually the naked pictures have already become a reality.

There is a strong social pressure on attractive or semi attractive people to continue having "fun" and getting laid with as many people as possible to "not miss out". What do you think a woman who only had sex with her current boyfriend get told by their female friends? "What, you only plan to have sex with one guy your whole life? You are really missing out and you can't decide until you get more "experienced" by experiencing more men."

The social engineering can be clearly seen with all these women ignoring their natural instincts and not having children or even aborting them. It's not normal to kill your offspring when you are perfectly capable of taking care of it.
I don't feel bad for the fat/ ugly chicks who want a slutty/ non-unfairness or oppression conscious life.

Feeling bad for a fat and ugly girl for not being good looking is like feeling bad for a wolf that it doesn't have any teeth to help it kill any animals and rise to an alpha pack. In a sense, you feel bad that it can't, but also you know that if you allowed it to do so other things will suffer. Getting to the root of why you feel bad is because you believe that there is a natural function for everything in life. And in that natural function we tacitly understand the fact, or maybe even abstractly uphold the notion that life IS NOT FAIR. So while we might want girls out of pity to be nice looking, we know they'll just use the ability of it like vain snoots.

I think the innateness of women is sinful. The only way to get good looking/ average looking women to make things equal for the world they've taken advantage of is to make them ugly. That way they might suffer and put their vanity down for the sake of being good people.

People do not endeavor to be humble and help the community. They endeavor to laughingly put up surfaces and get away with being vain, and running away from any real engagement. Just look at how angry people were in the Christian age, and they just turned their aggression from not getting what they want into "burning heretics/ witches/ infidels".

People (women especially) innately are entitled, and want to be spoiled with graces/ validation of being their ideal self/ special recognition/ etc. And they estimate their self worth by a judgment pattern that takes after the system of the universe they want to dominate. The system that they themselves instinctively/ cumulatively found to be the proper way they want to judged. We philosophically/ personall ascribe to an order of the universe that we feel is the way someone like ourselves SHOULD be assessed. A nigger judges himself with his strength/ swag/ etc. more than a woman with her beauty, and a woman's beauty more than males in general who care more about power and masculinity. Our self-judgment we analyze ourselves by is built with personal self interest/ who we want to be internally/ responsibility/ universality/ primality. These all create our self-evaluation system.

Women create a superficialist self evaluation system. They have a knowingly wrong self judgment system they apply to themselves, and others. They don't care. They want to live on the edge and not to spread order/ security/ peace. They want to be self grandified alone, or with those they will vicariously feel is an out of body experience of success. (Their family children). It's ego that drives them.

You can definitely classify the character of someone based on how they evaluate themselves.

"Non-exclusive dating" = an excuse to fuck Chads on the side (who she knows who will not commit to her)
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3D Face Analysis wrote:Modern definition of "dating" = women dating and hooking up with multiple men at the same time (including Chads who she knows will never commit).

Traditionally, dating used to be exclusive. You only have sex with one partner at a time. But modern "dating" often implies that women are free to date and hook up with multiple men at the same time, before she officially decides to commit to one man.

Women often do this secretively, and if a man finds out and gets upset or jealous, this will be blamed on the man, rather than being blamed on the women for being dishonest. Women will use these excuses:
"We did not commit yet. This means that I have the right to date and hook up with other men at the same time without telling you".
"You are being old fashioned."
"You are being judgmental."
"You are being controlling."


Personally when this type of behaviour affected me in the past it was painful to say the least.
I had stomach pain, and emotional pain like depression and self loathing for 6 months minimum.

It's not a game in my opinion, given these time frames this kind if tom foolery is destroying masculinity, and making me feel like a bitch.

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