Tinder is a brutal reminder to how we evolved as a Polygyny-adopted social species: good looks get you everything if your a guy (pussy, attention, the feeling of being desired and alive, liked), average looks get you very little, they tell others a lot about yourself which maybe untrue and demeaning, and your easily expendable, just not much higher than a downs syndrome male actually. Your insignificant in the grand scheme of evolution, it doesn't matter if you die out, yet average women on your own level will be treated like a male Chad (as long as they aren't fat) which is a bitter pill to swallow for most average guys. It's this great looks inequality between men and higher reproductive value of average women compared to average men that is behind nearly every serial killer in history, every despot ugly fuck North Korean leader as well.
Lets put it into a different context:
Guy A is 6'2 200lbs 10% bodyfat. Guy B is 5'7 147lbs 10%.
They are both green and untrained, never faught a day in their life. They enter the ring and fight. Although the fight is messy and raw, Guy A easily takes it with his sheer strength and size.
Guy B goes back home bruised, emasculated and joins an MMA club. After 4 years of boxing and krav maga and brazilian jui jitsu, he returns for a rematch with Guy A. This time, Guy A still having no training, Guy B smashes him down with superior technique and discipline. He takes it easily despite the size difference. Guy A, now salty he lost to some 'runt' half his size, joins his own MMA gym and trains for 2-3 years.
In the next rematch, even though Guy B is two weight divisions heavier at 160lbs, has trained for double the length of Guy A, they both know that with adequate and matched technique, Guy A will win. As expected he uses his sheer size and muscle mass to finish Guy B within a few minutes.
The fact of the matter is. If your naturally just a 4 or 5 at a low bodyweight/small frame/small height or bad jaw, balding etc, It doesn't matter how long you train, how long you looksmatch, how much you spend on top end clothes, how often you go to the barber, you get diminished returns after a while if your not a top tier Genetic Alpha male. Eventually, on equal levels of technique, good looking facial genetics, frame size, hair and height will be the decider. Age as well.
A natural 8/10 looker with a pretty boy face who's a shy 24yo pizza delivery boy on $8 per hour may lose to a 36yo 5.5/10 rich guy on $65 per hour, who's had experience and practise and is in contact with many women; but if that natural 8/10 stops being a pussy and puts himself out there, applies some mild social-dominance principles, he will beat the other guy 100 times out of 100.