" I have been with my husband between dating and marriage for nearly nine years. I was 21 when we first started dating. I had a habit of going between complete assholes and nice guys I wasn't really into. I chose the latter for my husband. I have never truly been physically attracted to him. I ignored this and pursued marriage for the safety factor. My eye wandered even when we were dating. I even called a guy (sorta drunk) early in our relationship, admitting I had a crush on him. I ignored every sign that I just wasn't into him. I wanted to be married so badly, I put all my energy in that, even though I hesitated even when he proposed. Fast forward to right before the wedding, I ended up messing around with a friend of a friend and then just pretended it didn't happen and went through with the wedding. "
RodgerRabbit wrote:Trying to fix yourself is literally a race against the clock. It's a catch 22. By the time you've fixed all the flaws that prevented you from slaying, you will have lost the one thing most essential to slaying in the first place -- youth.
NewGenious119 wrote:This idea that nobody owes anyone anything completely goes against the entire point of even having a society in the first place. If society doesn't owe an individual person anything, then the individual owes society nothing either, so don't be surprised when they take their frustration out on the world.
There is absolutely NO GOOD reason why, in the 21st century, every person shouldn't have their basic needs met. That means food, shelter, clothing, and transportation for all and, yes, if you are a male, sexual access to attractive females as that is considered a basic need for men as well.
Leebyunghun wrote:The number one source of strife in human existence is the inequality of looks among the male species.
germanDream wrote:a woman would fuck a cute dog or horse over an average faced man ANY day of the week. its not even close. women are repulsed by non male model men
PuaKiller wrote:Most women couldn't last a month as an incel male. They'd suicide. Prostitution would be legal worldwide and virgin shaming would cease if women were put in the shoes of an incel male for even a month. They couldn't handle it.
firehaze wrote:If a girl has never made it obvious that she likes you then you're a lot more subhuman than you think.