Online dating sucks for all guys, even CHADS

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Mewtant wrote:Women on POF have become so obsessed with finding a mythical man (6ft3 thor) that the majority of them have been on that site for 3+ years because what they seek doesn't even exist in high numbers.



I have seen women in badoo which are still there since 7-8 years ago, since 2010
and they are real , no fake profiles by the system, I had even their numbers and facebooks which I got them using fake MM profiles
really I don't understand why they still are there, surely they have a mental issue which prevents them to form a relationship, they are always in the search



Fabie wrote:
Mewtant wrote:Women on POF have become so obsessed with finding a mythical man (6ft3 thor) that the majority of them have been on that site for 3+ years because what they seek doesn't even exist in high numbers.



I have seen women in badoo which are still there since 7-8 years ago, since 2010
and they are real , no fake profiles by the system, I had even their numbers and facebooks which I got them using fake MM profiles
really I don't understand why they still are there, surely they have a mental issue which prevents them to form a relationship, they are always in the search


I have observed the same circumstance, where some females *persist for years* in the same or even other different dating websites.

Unlike males (who are preoccupied with competitive 'overhead'), females can devote all their effort (lol) to refining estimates of their sexual value.

Females have evolved to be *very* efficient at this, where they can now be seen to blow off males who appear, at least superficially, well within their 'league' (much to the consternation of males).

This is because females learn *very* quickly that virtually every female will get their turn with the highest echelon of attractive males if they just wait long enough in the queue (while the same does *not* hold for males).

If, by some accident of fate, a typical female was lurking this forum at this very moment, she would be *laughing* at all the male idiots who seem incapable of acknowledging these inconvenient truths.
Women seem wicked when you're unwanted

KnightCavalier wrote:
I have observed the same circumstance, where some females *persist for years* in the same or even other different dating websites.

Unlike males (who are preoccupied with competitive 'overhead'), females can devote all their effort (lol) to refining estimates of their sexual value.

Females have evolved to be *very* efficient at this, where they can now be seen to blow off males who appear, at least superficially, well within their 'league' (much to the consternation of males).

This is because females learn *very* quickly that virtually every female will get their turn with the highest echelon of attractive males if they just wait long enough in the queue (while the same does *not* hold for males).

If, by some accident of fate, a typical female was lurking this forum at this very moment, she would be *laughing* at all the male idiots who seem incapable of acknowledging these inconvenient truths.


please note that apart of all of what you said which is true
also there is the "attention whore" factor
some sluts follow certain routines every day, they come from work, they took a bath and then open all their social shit:
facebook, instagram, tinder,badoo, pof etc, and they relax from all attention they obtain
some of them keep these routines for years

It's WOMEN (not men) that are having more hook ups with the top 10>20% of the opposite sex due to left liberal views on sex and the ease of which to do so is aided by technology. Its funny how it gets turned on its head and incel or dateless males get accused of wanting only the top 10>20% of women (we don't!). It's projection, irrational beliefs, ignorance and stupidity in failing to see object reality by females, that's what it is. You see.... most women think any "thin" or healthy woman with a so-so plain - or even slightly ugly - face is "stunning", therefore in the top 20% (8/10) of females. Whiteknights and manginas think the same. In an incels and real world reality she's around a 6/10 > 5/10.

I used to frequent a 2hr history group at the local University in 2015 with a bunch of young Uni-age people and majority of the girls are either promiscuous party sluts or in a LTR with a Chad, tall guy, brute, handsome hipster of some sort. Even the gopher-faced, funny-looking girls acted like they were snoots. I used to sit and drink coffee and hear their stories during 15min breaktime. It was unbelievable.

Meanwhile the sub-6/7men are either incels, hog-fuckers/settlers or LTR beta cuck types.

Young women that aren't fat know they can attract the opposite sex who range from 1-8 in looks with ease and have abundant options for relationship and sex, just that they're not attracted to the majority of men that want to fuck them. A slim 5/10 woman with makeup can get a 7 or 8/10 male relatively easily. Its just easier for her online.

It's all biology and cause and effect though. If somehow the estrogen is removed from the water and men grow up with appropriate T levels and good health indicators that give them Chad-faces and bones in general, then probably yes. Otherwise the dating scene will continue to be miserable for 75% of men.

Mainstream society are waking up to the reality that is hypergamy. You see this word on all forums online nowadays. Bodybuilding, reddit, youtube comments, twitter, facebook comments. etc etc.
Tinder experiments is a good example. Tinder is BRUTAL. one of my work colleagues that's 6'4 and Chadlite have 400+ matches, while another guy (skinny-ripped 5'8 Asian aged 27) have under 5 and his matches are all hogs. It's too fucking brutal, its really provoking, and many guys are provoked by it.


I don't know what will happen really. But i think that many guys that are age 20 now will be really bitter at women when they are 30+ and think we will see less dating, interaction w/women and the end of serious relationships. After a while you get used to be alone without the attention from women and people and you start to accept it and even try to make the most of your "monk" time. Right now i could never ever imagine getting a girlfriend, married or having children. I just wanna fuck slim, presentable 5/10 girls and have fun. And thats what im gonna do (try to do) until I get too old to do it. I have to go to Thailand though, that's my only retreat. After that i might become pleasuremaxer or devide my life to living off grid like in those Ben Fogle documentaries.
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every online dating site is delusional & unrealistic

Mewtant wrote:It's WOMEN (not men) that are having more hook ups with the top 10>20% of the opposite sex due to left liberal views on sex and the ease of which to do so is aided by technology. Its funny how it gets turned on its head and incel or dateless males get accused of wanting only the top 10>20% of women (we don't!). It's projection, irrational beliefs, ignorance and stupidity in failing to see object reality by females, that's what it is. You see.... most women think any "thin" or healthy woman with a so-so plain - or even slightly ugly - face is "stunning", therefore in the top 20% (8/10) of females. Whiteknights and manginas think the same. In an incels and real world reality she's around a 6/10 > 5/10.

I used to frequent a 2hr history group at the local University in 2015 with a bunch of young Uni-age people and majority of the girls are either promiscuous party sluts or in a LTR with a Chad, tall guy, brute, handsome hipster of some sort. Even the gopher-faced, funny-looking girls acted like they were snoots. I used to sit and drink coffee and hear their stories during 15min breaktime. It was unbelievable.

Meanwhile the sub-6/7men are either incels, hog-fuckers/settlers or LTR beta cuck types.

Young women that aren't fat know they can attract the opposite sex who range from 1-8 in looks with ease and have abundant options for relationship and sex, just that they're not attracted to the majority of men that want to fuck them. A slim 5/10 woman with makeup can get a 7 or 8/10 male relatively easily. Its just easier for her online.

It's all biology and cause and effect though. If somehow the estrogen is removed from the water and men grow up with appropriate T levels and good health indicators that give them Chad-faces and bones in general, then probably yes. Otherwise the dating scene will continue to be miserable for 75% of men.

Mainstream society are waking up to the reality that is hypergamy. You see this word on all forums online nowadays. Bodybuilding, reddit, youtube comments, twitter, facebook comments. etc etc.
Tinder experiments is a good example. Tinder is BRUTAL. one of my work colleagues that's 6'4 and Chadlite have 400+ matches, while another guy (skinny-ripped 5'8 Asian aged 27) have under 5 and his matches are all hogs. It's too fucking brutal, its really provoking, and many guys are provoked by it.


I don't know what will happen really. But i think that many guys that are age 20 now will be really bitter at women when they are 30+ and think we will see less dating, interaction w/women and the end of serious relationships. After a while you get used to be alone without the attention from women and people and you start to accept it and even try to make the most of your "monk" time. Right now i could never ever imagine getting a girlfriend, married or having children. I just wanna fuck slim, presentable 5/10 girls and have fun. And thats what im gonna do (try to do) until I get too old to do it. I have to go to Thailand though, that's my only retreat. After that i might become pleasuremaxer or devide my life to living off grid like in those Ben Fogle documentaries.


I don't fully agree with this whole hypergamy theory ...
please can you explain why there are so many mismatched couples fucking on chaturbate for example?
Mismatched meaning that he is not in her league (not the contrary).
I strongly invite you to take a look at the Couple Cam section if you don't believe me.
And you can see also couples like that IRL , if you go out once in a while.

My explanation is... incels are incels because they are not NT.
They are aspie or have other mental illnesses.
So it's not about hypergamy and 80/20 rule , nor LMS , ... it's about neurological health.

p.s. and no, the average guys with hot girls on chaturbate are not paying the girls.
If the girl was doing it for the money, she would earn MUCH more by doing solo shows, or by escorting.
She must be in love with him.

wannabe wrote:I don't fully agree with this whole hypergamy theory ...
please can you explain why there are so many mismatched couples fucking on chaturbate for example?
Mismatched meaning that he is not in her league (not the contrary).
I strongly invite you to take a look at the Couple Cam section if you don't believe me.
And you can see also couples like that IRL , if you go out once in a while.

My explanation is... incels are incels because they are not NT.
They are aspie or have other mental illnesses.
So it's not about hypergamy and 80/20 rule , nor LMS , ... it's about neurological health.

p.s. and no, the average guys with hot girls on chaturbate are not paying the girls.
If the girl was doing it for the money, she would earn MUCH more by doing solo shows, or by escorting.
She must be in love with him.


please note that chaturbate performers are not normal people but retarded and mentally fucked morons
(both, men and women)
most of the couples there comes from the lowest social classes from 3rd world countries, so imagine what kind of garbage they are
most of them drug addicts, they have no family or are living very far away from them

they can not be taken into account for any statistics or draw a real life conclusion with their behaviors
(don't fit)
so what you see on chaturbate in solo girls or couples is totally anormal in real life
everything they do is a theater to earn money and to live for free with minimum effort



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