Master Yoda wrote:(Warning: long read, not suitable for those with a low IQ or short attention span)
For those of you who recalled my previous post about my good looking slayer friend who I went on a South Pacific cruise with back in March 1992, there's no need for you to read this post any further, for those who haven't here is a detailed account as to what happened (of course real names and identities will remain anonymous).
I first met my good looking slayer friend back in 1990 (who we will call "Tim", not his real name), when I used to work in the admin department of a major life insurance and superannuation company, and even then I could tell this guy did it easy with the ladies. Every two weeks, on a Friday, our firm would hold a staff happy hour where without fail, "Tim" would be surrounded by at least 3 to 4 attractive women all vying for his "affections" ie. his cock. Prior to myself and "Tim" going on the cruise, he had an inter office relationship (it was more a hook up) with a very attractive (but slightly chubby) blonde woman. "Tim" had also sired a son (when he was 19) from a previous relationship.
As I got to know "Tim" , he told me just how easy he had it when it came to women and sex, he had lost his virginity at 15, and given his height ( he is just over 6ft), good looks (full head of hair), race (he is white Australian of Irish-Catholic heritage) and athletic, muscular physique (he was also an all around athlete, ie, he was a state sprinter in the 100 metres sprint, competent body builder, he played a high level of Rugby League, he is a 6th Dan in Tak Wan Do martial arts, and even went to South Korea to collect his award where he showed me his certificates), which I believed, because he could back it all up, as I had clearly discovered and would discover over and over again.
In October 1991, myself and "Tim" paid $2,000 AUD each for a reasonably large cabin with two double bunks on each side and a porthole.
On Friday 20th March 1992, myself and "Tim", boarded the P&O cruiser "Fairstar" in Sydney on a two week cruise that would take us to Vanuatu, Fiji, Darvuni Island (part of of Fiji) and New Caledonia then back to Sydney on Friday 3rd April. After we had been cleared through customs/immigration, myself and "Tim" proceeded to stand against the side rail as we were being waved farewell and bon voyage by the large crowd at the port. It was here that I was given my most savage and brutal lesson on just how shallow and superficial women are, and that if your looks (and race), are not up to par, finding any woman is often going to be a very frustrating and self esteem crushing experience.
As myself and "Tim" were standing at the side of the cruise ship waiting for it to depart, we met two young women from Melbourne who happened to be Italian-Australian, one of whom was OK looking, the other very attractive. After myself and "Tim" introduced ourselves to these young women, the reactions and body language of these women to the both of us were as stark as the difference between night and day. Upon seeing my ugly, ethnic head, both of these women instantly turned their backs on me, ignored every word I said, and they were completely focused on "Tim" with their eyes lit up like a Christmas tree, and smiles as wide as the Grand Canyon, I soon got the hint and walked away feeling very pissed off.
On the first night of the cruise myself and "Tim" were having dinner in the main dining hall of the ship, where we were paired up with two nice young women from the South Coast of NSW, they were polite, but I could tell from their body language they saw me as nothing more than a nice person hang around with, but not fuck, but hey that's cool, at least these women were always courteous and polite to me. As myself and "Tim" were having dinner, in the corner of my left eye, I could see a table about 10 metres to my left of a group of smoking hot Aussie women, one of whom could not stop staring at "Tim" (she obviously was repulsed by my ugly head), I said to myself in my head ("In 24 hours, "Tim" is going to fuck this woman staring at him"), and lo and behold I was bang on the money, within 24 hours, "Tim" fucked this hot looking woman who I later discovered was from South Australia.
Each night of the cruise, there was a disco/nightclub held on the stern (that's the rear of the ship), and doing a rough head count, I came to the conclusion that there were actually more women than men, which is a change from the usual sausage fest most nightclubs and bars tend to be. Initially, I have to confess I thought I might have a chance here, but this is where I first observed the 20/80 rule-female hypergamy phenomenon in full force. Basically, all the ugly/or ethnic guys like me were by ourselves with our drinks/dicks in our hands, whilst the good looking guys and slayers took all the women (even the average and ugly ones). Of course, over the two weeks of the cruise I would have approached around 14 to 15 women, and of course they all rejected me instantly and brutally just because of my ugly looks and race. With "Tim" of course, it was a completely different story, in my estimation "Tim" must have fucked at least 15 women (maybe even more) over the two weeks of the cruise, basically "Tim" was treated like royalty by women, whereas us ugly incels were treated like cockroaches.
Probably the most demoralising and self esteem crushing rejection I copped was about mid way through the cruise, where one night, myself, "Tim", a farmer from Western Australia and a young guy from New Zealand met three young women also from New Zealand. Once again, when I introduced myself to these three women, they all pretty much turned their backs on me, gave me dirty looks, the silent treatment etc, it was pretty clear that I was the unwanted one here, so I quickly got the hint, and walked away backed to my cabin. As I walked away, I briefly turned around and saw the other three guys making out with these women from New Zealand, what a kick in the guts. To rub further salt in to the wounds, the very next morning when I went to answer a knock at the door of the cabin I was sharing with "Tim", the same three women who rejected me the night before were all asking for "Tim" ("Tim" was in the toilet/shower when I answered the door).
With "Tim" banging women left, right and centre (just because of his looks, and nothing else), he hardly slept in our cabin, and before the cruise we made an arrangement where if "Tim" bought back a girl to our cabin and I wasn't there, that he would place a "do not disturb" sign on the door, so that I would not embarrass him and any woman he was with. Ironically enough, this happened on the very last night/morning of the cruise. On the Friday morning as the ship was a few hours from returning back to Sydney, I went to the toilet, and moments later, I heard a knock on the door from "Tim", and mistakenly I thought I heard "Tim" say "Master Yoda, don't come out I am with someone", I said "OK, I will lock myself in the toilet/shower, until you are finished with your young lady and are dressed and decent". Moments later "Tim" knocked again and said "Master Yoda, are you OK?", I replied "You said don't come out, your with a lady", but then it was discovered that a misunderstanding had occured (it's a bit hard to hear someone clearly through a 2" thick solid steel door.). "Tim" said, "you can come out, myself and the lady are still dressed", when I opened the door, I could see "Tim" and the woman he picked up cuddling on his bunk (they were still dressed), I didn't want to sabotage "Tim's" pick up, so I very quickly said "look guys I am going for a walk", and quickly made my exit, it was rather obvious what they were going to do.
Whilst the women side of the cruise sucked for me, I did the enjoy the rest of the cruise, and saw some beautiful tropical nations and swam in some beautiful beaches and experienced some wonderful cultures (especially the friendly people from Fiji), but the lessons I learned were:
1) If you are going out looking to meet women DO NOT, and I stress DO NOT go with a guy who is much better looking than you are, you will get IGNORED AND REJECTED by women in favour of your better looking friend, I guarantee that, and other men have told me the same thing. The "Wing Man' theory is complete and utter BULLSHIT.
2) Women are shallow, superficial creatures that are attracted to shiny things, and if you don't pass the looks/race test, it's GAME OVER.
3) The 20/80 rule-female hypergamy is not some crazy tin-foil hat conspiracy theory it's real, very fucking real and I have personally witnessed it countless times.
4) LOOKS and RACE matter, and anyone who tells you otherwise is a fucking idiot and needs an urgent reality check.
Thanks for taking the time to read this, I am not making any of this up.
@ Master Yoda,
I regret your personal experience. Somehow I feel quite identified with you in terms of sexual/romantic frustration driven by the continued rejection of women.
Although I honestly have never had as friend a Chad (+8/10). The few friends I've had throughout my life were average joes I guess, anycase they would rate above 6.5/10 surely. But I lived some uncomfortable situations with any of them, since without being Chads men , some of them were sightly more attractive than me.
One of my friends, Josh, is 7 years my junior, and he's facially 6-6.5/10, while I'm a 4.5-5/10. Both of us we have a quite toned gym body (around 7/10), but I noticed that face ( moreover I'm NW 3 in baldness) and age ( I'm 7 years older) produced some difference between our mating success.
When we were hanging out in bars and nightclubs, I used to look around me and I always noticed that some women (plain janes or uglys) send IOIs to him, while I used to be quite more ignored. He was usually a guy with enough confidence and self esteem, and he was able to make a good number of approaches by night. Anyway I have noticed that seldom he finds some mutually interested woman, he just gets sometimes close numbers, kisses or dates, and when he does, those receptive girls are not attractive.
I can only say that I have felt really jealous of him once when I saw him kissing a pretty girl of around 25 years old. But I heard a few days later that she had flaked on him and she did not respond to his phone messages.
Although I know that their mating options are slightly better than mine, it's hard to feel envy when his results are not what I would wish for myself. By example, some of his "exploits" I have seen with my own eyes was when he got laid with a black (4/10 and 30 y.o), a slim mexican 6/10 (though I was young, 19 y.o), and a thin cougar ( face 5/10 and 38 y.o; note that my friend was then 29 y.o).
To the conclusion I draw is that despite having more female prospects for mating, if you are not a Chad, I realized that the quality of those female prospects is really bleak. I recall another of my old friends, Brandon. He was a facially 6-6.5 /10 too, but even less built body than Josh). Twice I saw him kissing with two hot girls (pretty face and sexy body, above 7/10). I think it was the times in my life when I had most envy of a close friend. But at the end I must say that these two girls flaked on him too. Not even he got his phone, or dates. And of course I never had sex with them.