its not the good looking guys used to getting anything they want that are perceived to be assholes... its the beta incels because they are assumed to be bitter, resentful etc. you cant win. the good looking guy can be a psychopath and he will be considered to be "edgy" "complicated"
You're right although to be fair, I've learned to watch my step pretty early. Some goodlooking men can be psychopaths and I know this. So they get shit tests too. Contrary to what you think, if a man is just too goodlooking or if he just has that douchey demeanor (some men just have this way about them. They look cleancut and well adjusted but something in their stance or facial expression gives them away as a total dick. I have never been wrong when I spotted it), he will get just as many shit tests but thats because I am aware of the mismatch. I benefit from this but I have never been entitled. I assume something is wrong with this guy and need to make sure that whatever it is, it isn't because he's a murderous nut or something along those lines. I don't think that many girls overanalyze to this degree but I always have and like to think its kept me out of trouble. After all going online for sex is high risk behavior imo.
4. again halo/failo effect.. good looking sociopaths who take what they want are actually the "nice guys" due to halo effect and possibly she is very compliant with them. less attractive guys get attitude and shit tests . self fulfilling prophecy
Again, you are right to an extent. I don't know how other girls operate but I never go into these situations with attitudes. All shit tests are masked as typical female behavior. It is designed to see how a man will react, what his natural tendencies will be so I can make an educated guess. Saves time and effort.
Lets say for instance I am guaging how desperate a guy is for the sex portion of the evening. Its not because I don't want to fuck but its because 1. Overly desperate guys are usually
turn off (I can think of an exception to this) and 2. Overly desperate guys might escalate into hurtful or dangerous behavior if they don't get their way. Drama. No way. Super easy tell for most guys.
The issue is the good looking guy might react to the same shit test calmly because his past experience tells him if he calms down, he will get the sex. The not so good looking guy may be frustrated because of past failures and doesn't hide his contempt all to well. Even if its just a flash across his face, that would be a red flag for me who could literally just call a trusty old friend and save my night. I don't risk it or I may lose attraction because of it. As men you don't realize how off putting and scary bad behavior can be. If I'm in this situation because I want to feel better about myself, I am not going to put myself in the position for a frustrated guy who I'm not even that attracted to put me down. That would be a double blow to the ego which is fragile and for me needs to be protected at all costs. I guess thats what that guy is trying to do but hey. Our needs and our objectives are different. By virtue of showing up and jumping through all the hoops, he already gave me what I was looking for. Attention and validation. The good sex is a thank you for that but he didn't get it yet so I have the upper hand here.
My friends and I- we have all agreed that all things being equal, we rather the disappointing bullshit come from a good looking guy than one we don't find attractive. Thats insult to injury.