The pain of being prejected.

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Fabie wrote:I never experienced what are you saying
surely you have a face or aspect which makes fear women (criminal aspect or guetto aspect)
on the other way if your skin is dark, some white women fear men with skin dark ,just for this


I look like a typical nerdy white guy. But women fear me for some reason, even black women. I actually think it´s rather disgust than fear.
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chimai wrote:there are a million possibilities you just reduced it down to incelness because that's the only thing on your mind. see, mentally healthy people don't see a girl walking to the other side as "rejection", they won't even notice it.


They notice, but bluepill themselves when it happens.

I remember walking on the street at night and a woman who was ahead of me kept looked back at me like i was some creepy rapist. Then she litterly stopped and standed awaited for me to pass her.
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FuckThis wrote:
chimai wrote:there are a million possibilities you just reduced it down to incelness because that's the only thing on your mind. see, mentally healthy people don't see a girl walking to the other side as "rejection", they won't even notice it.


Cope harder

If you were Justin Bieber do you think she would walk to other side?


No girl will walk to the other side because beiber looks like a small child, very non threatening.



lol fuckthis missing the point as usual. doesn't matter who it is, they might have a good reason for walking to the other side. i walk to the other side of the street all the time when i want to avoid blocking people or letting them slow me down.

Its a bit of a fine line between a prejection and a girl just avoiding a stranger. When I was in London one of the things that shocked me was the amount of prejections. Girls crossing the street to avoid, moving away on tubes, moving their bags to the other side if we were standing in line and lots more obvious avoidance tactics that just jumped out to me because I never had them before. Now that I moved back to Ireland this shit doesn't happen. However I still get the odd "prejection". When I first moved back from London I would still "pre-empt" the prejection by crossing the street first etc but I remember I did it once and the girl looked at me as if I was weird. I had forgotten that I wasn't in the shithole that is London.

To me the fact of a woman ignoring me or not looking at me when we're exchanging words is a rejection. And this is because I've seen what women do when they're in front of a good looking guy. They act all happy, treat them real nice and stare at them when speaking with a great smile on their faces.

Of course when I tell this things to people I know they start making excuses like maybe the girl was in a bad mood, or that not all women act like that. Classic responses to try to disguise the truth.



I sat next to a girl on the bus the other day and she got up and moved to the back of the bus, no eyecontact, no words exchanged.

Brimstone wrote:I sat next to a girl on the bus the other day and she got up and moved to the back of the bus, no eyecontact, no words exchanged.


Wow.

Master Yoda wrote:
ihateallwomen wrote:You incels know that situations when you are walking on the sidewalk and a female is coming from the opposite direction and crosses the street when she notices you. Or you are waiting for the bus and females keep distance. Or you are in public transport and no female wants to take the seat next to you.. The list goes on.
I experienced it so many times but the pain of being rejected without even approaching never goes away. Is it even possible to not give a shit as a male?

+1
Apologies for replying to this thread so late, I missed it.

Yes, being an ugly hard core incel I can certainly relate to what you have posted, and in fact, most of my 200+ rejections (over my entire lifetime) don't even get to the stage for me to approach or even ask a woman out for her to say no, I already knew I had been rejected or pre-rejected, based purely on the hostile body language (aka instant fuck off signals).



If you never went upto her and talked to her technically these rejections don't count, you were guessing, you did not know for definate you were gonna get rejected

on the other side of the coin at times i've been certain i was getting IOI's from a girl but upon approaching her was met with coldness and the target just barely being civil

if you don't go up and approach, you never really know for sure.........
mrz wrote:Those who argue against me are invariably religiously delusional with propaganda, or otherwise they are simply sociopaths, those are the only two possible reasons that anyone would argue against me.

most of this isn't prejection/rejection, it's projection and confirmation bias. unless you smell or are constantly staring at them, why the fuck would they care enough to move?

OSTB wrote:
Master Yoda wrote:+1
Apologies for replying to this thread so late, I missed it.

Yes, being an ugly hard core incel I can certainly relate to what you have posted, and in fact, most of my 200+ rejections (over my entire lifetime) don't even get to the stage for me to approach or even ask a woman out for her to say no, I already knew I had been rejected or pre-rejected, based purely on the hostile body language (aka instant fuck off signals).



If you never went upto her and talked to her technically these rejections don't count, you were guessing, you did not know for definate you were gonna get rejected

on the other side of the coin at times i've been certain i was getting IOI's from a girl but upon approaching her was met with coldness and the target just barely being civil

if you don't go up and approach, you never really know for sure.........


Please stop trying to defend PUA quackery, I know how to read female body language, in fact most normally, socially intelligent men know how to, and a woman does not have to reject you verbally.

It's not to hard to tell when a woman wants you to get lost, whenever I detect any hostile body language from a woman, I quickly get the hint, thank the said woman for her time and walk away. At the same time, just because a woman is acting friendly towards you does not necessarily mean she is interested either, there is a difference in a woman taking to you of politeness, and a woman who is genuinely interested in you.
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Icecutter101 wrote:this ^

those 'rejections' don't count

I am sorry, they do, read my reply to OSTB where I qualify my reasons why.

I was thinking the other day just how incredible my number of rejections actually are. Uncommonly, my memory goes back as far as being 6yo at school, and I remember even then - even fucking then - coming out second best to other boys when trying to play with girls I fancied.

Fast forward to 7yo, and there was, what was in retrospect, a staged cucking of monolithic proportions. At that time, I always played and sat next to this girl called Helen and everyone knew it. She did actually like me, I recall. But the teachers decided, inexplicably, to stage a mock 'wedding' in front of the entire form. Helen was the bride, and the groom? Some random fucker - not me.

As the teachers re-hearsed this wedding over the ensuing weeks, life depressingly began imitating art and Helen slowly but surely hung around more and more with this other kid, and much less with me. Then, as if teacher-arranged cucking wasn't enough, they cast for the part of Helen's 'dad', i.e. the person who would give her away. And just take one guess as to who landed that prize fucking role.... just couldn't script this bullshit if you tried.

Incredibly, that wasn't the end of it. Years later, around 20yo, I bumped into Helen again. All very friendly and convivial, regaling the 'hilarious' wedding scenario - yet it only took a mere 30 seconds before she managed to get the line in that she was "settled in a relationship". Double-fucking-cuck! (before you ask, no, it wasn't with the kid she 'married' - that would have definitely fucking been Gandy time).

Still, I learned not long afterwards that Helen's mother took her own life, and Helen had the trauma of finding the body. So there is some justice.

Everyone seems to be in a relationship. Even the ugly girls are in a relationship with looks matched ugly guys. The single girls are just fucking around the the high LMS guys preaching all men are the same on facebook.
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BreakingBad wrote:Everyone seems to be in a relationship. Even the ugly girls are in a relationship with looks matched ugly guys. The single girls are just fucking around the the high LMS guys preaching all men are the same on facebook.

At the current rate of global population growth, 100,000 babies are born each day, give or take. That's at least 200,000 people fucking worldwide every 24 hours; and they are just the ones not using contraception.

When you stop to think just how many people get to fuck members of the opposite sex, it takes a strong mind not to succumb to the depressing statistics.

Master Yoda wrote:
OSTB wrote:

If you never went upto her and talked to her technically these rejections don't count, you were guessing, you did not know for definate you were gonna get rejected

on the other side of the coin at times i've been certain i was getting IOI's from a girl but upon approaching her was met with coldness and the target just barely being civil

if you don't go up and approach, you never really know for sure.........


Please stop trying to defend PUA quackery, I know how to read female body language, in fact most normally, socially intelligent men know how to, and a woman does not have to reject you verbally.

It's not to hard to tell when a woman wants you to get lost, whenever I detect any hostile body language from a woman, I quickly get the hint, thank the said woman for her time and walk away. At the same time, just because a woman is acting friendly towards you does not necessarily mean she is interested either, there is a difference in a woman taking to you of politeness, and a woman who is genuinely interested in you.



you may well indeed be right on reading the body language [that the woman isn't intersted], but unless you've actually gone upto her [approached] it isn't really a rejection imo and shouldn't be classed as one. At most, a prejection [which is much softer than an actual rejection]

getting prejected is a common occurance, and to any normal man with a libedo it should be happening atleast a few times a week.
eg: man see's hot woman walking down the street, he starts checking her out or looking at her alot, the woman notices and deliberately avoids your gaze or tenses up or something else to suggest she is not intersted.

As for women talking to me out of politness, i can ususually spot that no problem. what's more challenging though is to spot a woman who is token flirting you from a woman that has real genuine interest. And man, you are far too polite ..., if i approach a woman and she is giving me hostile body lanaguage i immediately just stop talking to her and walk away. and you know what? ...they don't give a flying fuck. At first when i used to do this i asked myself how come they don't seem upset or anything...? but if you think about it why would you care if a person you had zero interest in just walked away. you wouldn't.

Feeling fear of prejection is insecurity. Insecurity is good because you'll be so angry by the injustice and insult of being low value, your emotions will be charged and you'll do anything to qualify.

I wish women loved someone with the angry drive to be of value more than someone whose confident/ complacent and normy.
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The opposite is true for me. Women almost always sit next to me, or swerve towards me if walking to the point of brushing arms or almost brushing arms.

If I'm talking to a girl and an ugly guys joins she will instantly leave the conversation. Ugly guys really do scare off attractive women.

I'm not a Chad. I started as Subhuman, no girls would go near me and now I'm maybe a 7. My goal is to become a Chad. I absolutely believe every guy who's not too short or too tall has a chance, but of course only 1% of guys will succeed. It's similar to succeeding in business, there is no prize for being a customer's second best option, and women have lot's of options.
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