backagain wrote:I used to have that after one particularly weird rejection - I used to think I could just talk to the bitches and they'd want to fuck - sadly YOU MUST MAKE A SEXUAL move even if its just kissing them on the lips - you NEED to test to see if THEY are attracted and not dicking you around - the worst you'll get is a face turn and some LJBF BS - of course do NOT assume they are DTF as women KNOW they can lure men in with kisses etc and then still not want sex
That's good advice, mate, but usually it's already completely obvious from their body language that they're not remotely interested. And I have made a move in the past, and they have turned their face, and I have got the "you're a really great guy, but..." routine. Nothing I do seems to make any difference. All I can say is that now it's much easier for me to get dates than it was, and I'm somewhat optimistic, and as other men get older and fatter maybe I've got more of a chance. But I've never been attractive to women, it has always been a struggle for me. That's life, no-one said life was going to be fair.