PuaKiller wrote:How many approaches have you done now? You forget that women are bombarded with attention and are extremely narcissistic as a result. If you've been at this for years and still don't see results, when are you going to take the hint? Plus many girls are paranoid and if you're a black guy randomly approaching them what good could that do for them? Honestly?
Being ignored completely is one of the most common tactics around. Simply put, you're an average black in a white man's world so 99.9% of women will ignore you sexually, especially the types of women you're going for (6+ and white). I really think for your sanity and safety you should stop cold approaching entirely or only do so in a social setting using the tips given ITT. All this rejection isn't good for you and you've been doing this for how long? A PUA cold approach is already aspie as fuck and very socially uncalibrated.
year before daygame - around 35 - 0 numbers
last year daygame - around 40 - 0 numbers
this year has been improvements in the fact some women are showing an interest.
this year daygame - around 100 - 5 numbers/facebooks [did not bother to contact 2 of them]
[one girl was a 6, one a 6.5, one a 5, one a 5.5, one a 4.5] [white, white, Indian, white, white]
[you rated me 4.25, another rated me 3.5, another implied i was an average black man so i guess 4 to 4.5]http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/g ... re-my-odds
I would fall into the beginner catagory so i will quote from there:Girls is of equal sex appeal [Looksmatch]
8 legit phone numbers per every 100 approaches (8% total, 1 out of 12.5)
* this number can be increased by asking EVERY GIRL you speak to for her number - something that beginners don't do.
1 of 3 of those phone numbers will meet up with you (2.64% total)
you will sleep with 1 in 2.5 (40%) of these girls that meet up with you (1.056% total)
[Girls is +1 above you]
2.86 legit phone numbers per every 100 approaches (2.86% total, 1 out of 35)
* this number can be somewhat increased by asking EVERY GIRL you speak to for her number - something that beginners don't do.
1 of 5 of those phone numbers will meet up with you (0.572% total)
* beginners usually give up on girls that don't meet up with them right away
you will sleep with 1 in 3.3 (33%) of these girls that meet up with you (0.1906% total)
[girl is +2 above you]
1.66 legit phone numbers per every 100 approaches (1.66% total, 1 out of 60)
* this number can be slightly increased by asking EVERY GIRL you speak to for her number - something that beginners don't do.
1 of 5 of those phone numbers will meet up with you (0.33% total)
you will sleep with 1 in 2.5 (40%) of these girls that meet up with you (.13% total)
note: There is no mention of race on that page, but knowing that race effects results, and that around 25% of white women have dated a black man (therefore would probably be open to doing it again) [not the absurd 99% of all women want nothing to do with black men like you claim] ... my results for this year arn't really so terrible. they're terrible in the sence im not getting laid, but statistically if i can keep approaching and not sercome to approach exhuastion or depression/low moral i should get something.
so slash the quoted expectations by atleast 50% [tbh it should be slashed more like 75% as 25% is the figure of women who have proved themself actually open to BBC(have dated a black man)] and in terms of numbers im not doing badly at all, infact i'd go even further and say that sluthaters ratings of me and womens ratings of me are not in sync ...because if they were i should of had far fewer numbers. lets say my average rating on here is a 4. lets say my real life rating is a 4 too.
a white guy is expected to get a 1 in 60 number close rate with a woman +2 points above him from daygame.
a black guy [once we've accounted for the fact that 50% OR LESS of white women are open to black men (and the 50% is a VERY conservative estimate] then I should be getting 1 number from a 6 every 120 approaches.
If we run your numbers [ 99% or 99.9% are not open to me] then statistically it would take thousands or tens of thousands of approaches to even land one number.
Regarding that i should try approaching in a more social setting im assuming you're meaning bars or clubs or something? yes, i agree [and no i don't agree]. Because in order to inhibit my inhbition and AA i need to be doing this shit on multiple days, consequtively. If i just go clubbing once a week, i'll make a few approaches but still have a lot of inhibition and AA at the end of it. that night i wont be uninhibited enough to really go hard with the girls, and go after makeouts ..or more. By time next week has come along again [7 days of doing nothing] my AA and inhibition has returned to almost as high as last week. The process just repeats itself, week after week with me being too AA and high inhibition to do much seducing or attempt.
Currently I can't find no one willing to go out on thursdays and fridays. workcellers generally dislike going out on these days. PUA's these days are not very much into clubs in London and all they want to do is daygame. The last guy i met i finally persuaded him to go to a club and within 20 minutes of getting there the guy was asking to leave. if i was out thursdays,fridays, and saturdays this would be enough to wear down my inhbition and AA.
on sunday when i just didn't give a fuck, was fairly low inhibited and shouted out "bitch" to that girl was the result of going out sarging on thursday and friday and having my AA and inhibition grounded away.
had sunday been the first time in weeks i had approached i would have never done that. would have be far too high inhibition.
I seem to get a lot of stick for my high inihibition and AA, but if you to rate it against others on this site im actually low inhibition because most on this site don't approach or haven't for years.
I will keep approaching till it gets too cold, or i start to suffer with approach exhaustion.
After that i will sign up to meetme type websites again and try things that way.