People won't pillar their consideration of you just on bondship and love. They do it in relation to what kind of value you have. And that's dictated by their idea of you, and their esteem system.
Women pillar their esteem of you based on the primal model. Women set out with the love of being sluts/ cunts/ dominant whores. They don't crave to be a part of plebby nice humanity. They wanna be a part of the effective eminent enigmatic edgearchs of society. Look at our discriminating personality in general. It's evidence enough of that.
If you are avialable and nice,... even when people aren't necessarily qualifying for you and you're not doing it because they're trying to vie for your favor then...
people will think that you are of low standard because you like them at the low position they're at. People only really hail/ care for the people who are hierarchs who have the affluence/ surplus of personal substance that they feel they can be whole from society without extending anything to other people. You have to be conscious of the inner elitism within mankind and the fact that mankind is evolutional/ hierarchical/ power oriented more so than wanting to be communal. Just try being lovingly friendly as opposed to being a mighty chad doing chaddy things with his wingmen and you'll see people be more available/ loving/ nice to the latter.
Women want people who they had to strive to be at their best for. Not at someone mediocre. People who restrict themselves and reserve themselves and only give them interactional footing if they were good enough. If a woman achieved status even when she wasn't trying then you won't have the elitist domineering demeanor that they love so much. The dominarchical despot, that women put so much primal preference upon.
Even a chad will be felt as expendable and people will keep trying to vie/ reside with the favor of people who only supply interactional footing on behalf of the primal capital that resides within people. Because it's funner to be evil than it is to be compassionate and graceful.
I would say looks are good for making kids. But the reason people REALLY REALLY REALLY like looks is because of the dominarchicality to it/ the primality impact upon people and how people will follow/ fear him. That's the fowl thrill our species gets off of it. To see people get lowered, and to see flaws get prominized and exuded to cause more division and separation for the thrill and joy of domination.
“I could show fight on natural selection having done and doing more for the progress of civilization than you seem inclined to admit. Remember what risk the nations of Europe ran, not so many centuries ago of being overwhelmed by the Turks, and how ridiculous such an idea now is! The more civilised so-called Caucasian races have beaten the Turkish hollow in the struggle for existence. Looking to the world at no very distant date, what an endless number of the lower races will have been eliminated by the higher civilized races throughout the world.”
― Charles Darwin
"A prevention of the faculty and opportunity to procreate on the part of the physically degenerate and mentally sick, over the period of only six hundred years, would not only free humanity from an immeasurable misfortune, but would lead to a recovery which today seems scarcely conceivable."
― Adolf Hitler
"The way of nature has always been to slay the hindmost, and there is still no other way, unless we can prevent those who would become the hindmost being born. It is in the sterilization of failures, and not in the selection of successes for breeding, that the possibility of an improvement of the human stock lies."
― H. G. Wells
"It is better for all the world, if instead of waiting to execute degenerate offspring for crime, or to let them starve for their imbecility, society can prevent those who are manifestly unfit from continuing their kind....Three generations of imbeciles are enough."
― U.S. Supreme Court Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr., Buck v. Bell, 1927