Prophecy1933 wrote:In life people are successful because they were born attractive. They'll never admit this though. They'd rather believe they were successful because of their own "abilities". So they lie and tell ugly people the reason they're unsuccessful is because “they're not trying hard enough" and that they need to stop "whining" and "blaming their problems on others".
To unpack: Primality capital is the first and most essential source of value by which peopel evaluate. All else pretty much stems from that. When they frame their success around egalitarianism, anyone can do it, etc. then people feel that they have virtue capital as well, making people feel their value is more amenable to receive/ approach with a humble nature. And for the chad/ successful person in question to manipulate people by snagging them with a good/ humble nature. Then increasing their selectivity pool.
People have a very hard time with dramatics, and want primality without the martiality of it. They want to be clear winners so as to create the greatest clearing and stomp upon life without altercation. Not just so they can fight altercation better, but so that they can cure it.
With your philosophy how it's irrational to expect other to like us, when it hurts them is essentially not much more logical than it being rational that people can do whatever they want without being accountable to anyone, even though it hurts others (the selfish). Advocating for selflessness/ for people to not expect anything out of other people is advocating for free will... which is just as much of a boundary as being tyrannized by incels/ psychos/ chads/ oligarchs. For there are both tyrants and humanitarians, only tyrants make up the majority. Both are social constructs. Freedom is an illusion given to the weak by the strong. THis universe is nothing but a series of physical forces... and those who rank high in the physiarchy rule all. And we are geno-wired to know this. Supporting the free will of all is actually more suppressive than allowing people to primalesce one another and rob them of free will.
This feminism/ is a bit of an unknown twist to our psyche's primal knowledge base however. Where we are living in a physiarchy where people are not revered for being powerful, but being humble. A contradiction in the way that this notion is enforced. Society/ the victims are primalescing themselves while veneering it as egalitarian justice.