also women which are not really gold diggers care about looks less as they get older
in their 20s they start to realize they can't retain good looking guys for serious purposes due those guys have lot of options
those women back to reality will dump a good looking guy after a long frustrated time trying to make such guy to commit
then of course they try to find an uglier guy which compensates the lack of looks with economic stability + the desire of a stable pussy /form a family
This is how most middle-class families are formed
Good aesthetic genes matter far more to people than being well learned/ intelligent. The only way people of the latter rank over the good-gened is through bill gates/ STEM means, and even then, there aren't a lot of frontiers or untapped methods by which intelligent people haven't wormed through and exploited already. At this point going from peasant to privileged is by genes/ cam model/ gold digging and enticing the already high class individual into believing you are special because of your bodygonic traits that make you seem more... special than the everyday common rabble.
Women choose to lens their mindscope around pigeonholing all value primalescently. LMS centric. Women know the only valid means in life is genetics/ being of value in the community/ all society. You can't do much to topple the human race and get your vanity-sustenance as a single individual through crushing them down unless you machiavelli your way through them. Women sync with the census and subvert their psyches with primalescent persuasion. Such as their own Looks. And their geno-ingrained cynicism isn't an unreliable realism. It's actually very true. People are primalescent. It was the main reason society comes together, other than cooperation for survival.
Everything that doesn't lead up to domination with women, in the consideration of the real-world application of something is a trivial intangibility. IF you even get to women who will even be realistic. Most can't even introspect, extroceive properly to even grasp realism. AND it's another established proclivity that most women on average will discount and dismiss anything that doesn't give them happiness. Women are generally half-dwelt in the world of reality, or at least as realistically far as human perception can allow us. Women are only periodically processing reality in the hopes of dominating it, and then mending its conditions to fit what gives them self-esteem/ gratification/ etc. But you can't expect a woman to ever give a shit about anything you have to say if it doesn't lead to the external conditions following suit with her narcissistic fantasies.
This is what I call inapt realism lensed in Luxuriance. Being a black pilled realist is seen as an indicator of inferiority to girls. Women actually want men who don't have clear introspection, and are not really good at empathy. Women like it when men think that they can live/ make it off on their looks, primal capital/ position alone. All applications/ procedures that men have gone through/produce NEED to fit the inspection criteria of a woman's natural inference. Being intelligent/ insightful is a beta-status bypass mechanism, like humor. Women need to think that if men are hard working, at the gym, etc. then it can't be because of gymcelling motivation. It needs to be because she abstracts through inference/ inspection/ instinct/ evolutionary-vigilance that it's because the guy is acting on behalf of what I call the "Alphaclivity". The behavioral course which comes habitually to someone of the alpha geno-tier. The normie/alpha psychstructure behavior patterns. A woman needs to be able to abstract the reasons for someone doing something, and it must fall within that category. AND MOST OF IT IS GENETIC. An Alpha can BE HIMSELF and play magic the gathering/power rangers (so long as the aspie-aspect does not override the value of your genes, but genes good enough is often insurmountable value)... AND STILL GET LAID becuase he's got all of the essentials. So her psychsequences of evaluation will be read in accordance with being worthy of association. The Woman will read the alphaclivity based on his genetics/ the life and primalescent power on the primarchy he has because of them. All in her constavaluation sequences. The Alphaclivity also leads to the Alphassumption of his existence. Whereas beta genes = Betassumption. Halo effect all over. But yes the alphaclivity is what women require from the behavior of their men ultimately.
And no, it's not about confidence, it's about dominance/ primalescence... unlike what the PUAtards would have you believe. Playing the chillheaded/ mellowminded game to attract women is definitely a betaclivity thing to do. At least if it's forced, but if it isn't then you're just being yourself... Which might but not often give you an edge in getting girls... if they find the warm cozy sympathy towards someone indifferent to the primarchy, and will want to find his way in his own beta-leagued-lifestyle(being himself). But that's only for the women who will probably find something else redeeming about him (something of not LMS, but of achievement, competence or some primal value)... but it's so rare that you ever meet a girl who doesn't have the primalescent system of gratification/ esteem/ relational self-comparison in her self worth/ criticism that she would pick a suitor for his inner essence/ bond/ spirit at the expense of all that. Remember, there neess to be something distinct about you to be chose, unless the girl has such a low self esteem that she'll just take anyone who won't call her fat or stupid. But those girls are probably so worthless that it wouldn't matter anyway.
It's not that you CAN'T do anything that isn't betaclined if you have beta-tier genes. But you will always vibe-off that way evolutionarily, and compartmentalized justly. And beta-tier genes will compartmentalize you in their mind-file/ female gratification-chess in a way that will keep your P away from her V. So while you will always be betaclined in the female mind no matter what, you can at least compound that (other than having economic power/ wealth) with being honorable, courteous, etc. But women have a cuntclivity every full moon, and will go after the primalescent. It's all a part of our inner primality as a vain-aimed species.